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writes:i have this friend "jon" and we have been hanging and texting a lot lately. he told me he likes me and I told him I liked him. but there is one huge problem: he has a girlfriend! jon says he would love to date me but he also loves his girlfriend. he works a lot so we aren't able to see each other that often and he tells me he misses me and he wants to see me. jon and I have met up at the park some nights and we have gotten a lot closer. we have done nothing physical because we don't want to make this situation worse than it already is. but it is getting harder for us to fight the temptation and I am worried things may get more serious. I have come to the harsh realization that I am the "other woman" I really like jon but I keep thinking about his girlfriend and I feel extremely bad for her. I am so confused and I don't know what to do... I really want to be with jon but I don't want to be responsible for ruining such a beautiful relationship.I just don't know what to do...?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Lay low for a while .... Don't do anything physical because that wud be cheating and you don't want that ... it will mess up things ....Tell him that you'll wait for him but you won't wait forever...
that's all the advice I have
I hope it helped and I hope everything works out for you
GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Sorry but i'm laughing so hard at "beautiful relationship". one of two things is happening here. (1) Jon wants his cake and eat it too! or (2) Jon wants his cake and eat it too! opps i guess only one thing is happening here.. Unless Jon has a child with his GF, i see no reason why he can't leave her and be with you. Oh you said he loves her....hmmm, well guys that are in love, usually don't have late night meets in parks with other girls, and tell them that he misses them. Face it , Jon probably is not going to leave his gf, or he would have done that by now. So i guess the only choice you have is.. Do you want to do the right thing and walk away and leave him alone, or do u want to be the "other women" as you say. Just waiting in the wings, for him to leave her. I would suggest you say,, Good bye Jon, and find a man of your own, IF you and JOn do actually end up together, would you actually trust him??? Wouldn't you always wonder , Who he's meeting in the park this time.. I would!!
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