A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey.. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I had to ask him out, and for the first few months he was dismissive to me. He was still a virgin before me, and i'm his first proper girlfriend.Our sex life is great, we only see each other 3 times a week due to school and college.He never calls me or texts me unless I text him first. He tells me he loves me etc, and when we're together it's great. But why can't he make effort to arrange to meet up or text me to see how I am? Why do i have to do all the running?.. I discussed it with him, and he says he will fix it, but nothing ever comes with this. Am i being to paranoid and immature?thanks
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 April 2008):
 You are normal .You do not want to be the initiator always
and you would prefer he be in the driver's seat sometimes.
You have spoken to him and you need to be more patient .
If he cannot initiate then he has some mental road blocks and
it is up to you if you can bear with it.
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female
reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (3 April 2008):
 You aren't being too immature and paranoid. A relationship is a two way deal, remember? It takes two to tango and all that jazz. If he's not putting in the effort to contact you first, do something about it! Seriously. It seems like you're putting all of the effort in! I think you should try talking to him about it again and see what comes of it.
Wishing you the best.
xx
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