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Could I be gay?

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Question - (3 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was looking for some heterosexual porn trailers to masturbate 2 and I did I was masturbating and a gay/bi trailer came on and I continued now I'm questioning my orientation. I have a girlfriend and I'm usually more excited but I wasn't and more horny and I do more things, now I don't. Could I be gay or becoming gay?

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2008):

Peterk5699 agony auntThe others have given the good advice. As one has said, it's hormones kicking in, we all get it as teenagers but it's very normal to be curious about things.

In a few years you'll discover your true self (I'm not saying you haven't already)

But yeah, live life happily and don't get anxious about these things :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008):

I doubt that you're gay, I have a boyfriend and we have really god sex he turns me on and stuff but once in a while when I see girls I get turned on. I experimented with a girl in the past and I told him about it and it turned him on now he wants to have a 3sum but I don't think im gay im not really into that stuff I was just curios like you probably are. I get turned on by girls especially watching them during sexual intercourse but im not gay and nor am I in denial. Basically I don't think that you're gay you're just curious and you're young so that's completely normal. Hope this helps....xoxo

Mrs.Charles2b

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A male reader, honeyross United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2008):

honeyross agony auntYou can't 'become gay' just by watching porn. It's completely normal for straight teens to get turned on by any sort of porn.

Stop worrying. It doesn't matter at this stage. When you're about 17 years old you'll probably have a clearer idea of your sexuality. For now, just enjoy yourself and try not to be anxious.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

I dont think so. Just curious, or horny, like most teens. I was like that once still are, happily married though:) Don't worry, its just hormones.

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