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41-50,
*renda
writes:hii, i would like you to assist me. i was once married and separated with 3 kids, i am in love with a married man and he was so good before he had me in bed, after that he is still with me yes but i feel the distance, he never shares more, if you ask him a question he doesnt answer, if you call at times he doesnt pick then he says he was with his wife.i love him so much and one problem with him he is so not active in bed, he gets tired quickly then he normally jumps to the shower immediatly after sex. he keeps on saying that he is broke. hes so scared of expences. Assist me to understand my world together as his world. could he be using me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): As someone who just had a wife leave him for another guy, I find posts like your hard to read....maybe his conscience got the best of him, or maybe his wife found out. In either case, why play the "homewrecker" and just find someone who's single?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Yes sadly he is using you and sex is all he wants from you!! He has his perfect wife at home waiting for him!!! He tells you he is broke - he's paying for a mortgage and wife and family!!Walk away now before you get any more involved or hurt than you are already!! You have your 3 kids to think of as well in this - they HAVE to be top priority in all this. He will promise you the sun moon and stars but you will end up with nothing but broken promises, hurt and always feeling 2nd best or as the other woman!!! Walk away... while you still have some self respect and dignity!!! Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Yes he is using you, so why are you still hanging around him. He has a wife so why are you with him to start with? You will get no complete happiness here. He is just out for himself. He has no cash because he already has a wife who if probably keeping an eye on the finances (if she has half a brain). He jumps into the shower straight away so no smells of your are left on him. He cannot answer your calls because he is with his wife. He is tired because he has probably had hours of great sex with his wife, which is where he should be. Anymore spelling out!!!???? Go now and dont look back. Get a bloke who is free and single!
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