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writes:I went out for a date with a guy on Monday night. I'd initially e.mailed him - I know of him, our kids are at the same school. He's just divorced, I'm soon to be. I e.mailed him on Wednesday saying I had a lovely time, and if he'd like to meet again to phone.I've not heard a thing.... do you think he'll call, or is it too late?Can I e.mail him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Try phoning him and ask if he's read his emails recently. Maybe he hasn't. In which case he won't know you've tried to get in touch.
Ask him straight out if he'd like a repeat of Monday night, or something a little different, or nothing at all.
You've a 50/50 chance! (well, 33/33/33 if there's a maybe!)
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 You certainly can email him again but I wouldn't advise it. I think you let him know you had a good time and now it's up to him. Think if it were reversed. If he sent you the same email. Would you be annoyed if he then sent you another one? I think you might think he was needy. Just give it time. He just went through a divorce and it is tough. He may be uncomfortable with your divorce not final yet. Who knows what's going on with his thinking. He may still call, he may not call. Waiting is no fun but maybe you should just move on and if he calls, great! Good luck to you.
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