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male
age
36-40,
*aogwan
writes:hey guys would like your help pleaseMe and my gf have been together for 10 months now we're both virgins and are planning to have sex for the first time.my gf told me that she loves me, i think i feel the same but i have a problem, she told me about her past and i dont like the fact that shes more experienced than me as she's my first gf. she's only been with 2 guys and had a fling and kissed some randoms guys when drunk. Her past bothered me and i keep wanting to ask her questions about it i dont understand why! i know it will make things worse for me but i can't help it. everytime i think of her past i get this burning feeling within me. can someone help me understand why i'm like this and can someone show me how i can move forward, it's gone on for too long now i hate it!! i just wanna be happy!!! and i don't want to hurt her!.Thank you....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): there's nothing wrong with being curious about your girlfriend's past
but at least you know she's never been as far as she wants to go with you
it doesn't matter if she's done other stuff with other guys, it's you she wants to be with and share her first time with
i hope this answer helps :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): there's nothing wrong with being curious about your girlfriend's past
but at least you know she's never been as far as she wants to go with you
it doesn't matter if she's done other stuff with other guys, it's you she wants to be with and share her first time with
i hope this answer helps :)
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): Look buddy
Your young you must oversee the past. Theres only one thing you can have a influence on and thats the future . go hard or stay home.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): You're both virgins, she hasn't sleep with someone just kissed and maybe something more. You got nothing to be jealous off, really it be hard for you to find a girl at that age who hasn't kissed anyone! your being pathetic, grow up
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): your going to have to get over that, bro. It's part of growing up. Hit it a few times and you'll be hooked and (hopefully) forget about her past. Remember, she's doin' you, now, not the other guys.
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female
reader, without_reason +, writes (2 November 2007):
 It's good that you've waited this long to first have sex with each other, it shows you both want more than just sex in a relationship..
As for her past bothering you, it may just be so because you're jealous of the other guys.. Don't let this bother you, she's with you now, and has been with you for a long time.. And wants you to take her virginity! Obviously, you are much more special to her than the other guys ever were..
Also, for hurting her during sex, there's no denying it wont hurt her a bit.. but she's with someone she care's about, and trusts, so don't worry about it!
xx
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