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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How could I lose this loser?I dated this guy way back 1 year ago, at first, it all goes well but gradually he changes, he started to live with his vices like smoking weeds and drinking which he never did before. One night at our friend's party he started drinking ,get drunk, throw up everywhere, and ruined everything! that's the time I called it off. Now he's begging to get me back but all I fel for him was hate! I wanted to get rid of him forever! but he still can't accept the fact that were done.. what will I do? pls help
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): just tell him its over
tell him: 'you blew it and cant fix it, there are a lot of girls out there and I'm only one them. i bet there are girls who will accept you with you drinking, smoking, etc. but I'm not one of them.'
make sure you tell him this when he isn't drunk and when he is sane.
if this is a HUGE problem consider changing your cell phone number if that is what he usually calls you on.
best of luck to you and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Just tell him that he's the last bloke on earth that you want to be seen with or have anything at all to do with and to get over it. Sever any and all communication. Don't answer any calls or emails. Totally shun him.
If this doesn't work, tell him if he keeps harassing you that you'll involve the law to keep him from pestering you.
He might get the message.
Phil
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