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writes:I fell in love with my friend...and i told him on wed night. he told me he never saw me in that way, we talked, and i said i dont wanna lose you as a friend and he agreed.the story is really long, i never would let myself fall for him, if i had known from the start. but i only told him i bn feeling like this for a while, (we known each other 18months).we said he doesnt want to start a relationship, then if doesnt work out tel me to piss of, coz im a decent girl and he respects me to much for that. but he said knows in years time, but then sed doesnt to keep my hopes up.after we spoke he sent me a text saying nite nite' and i text him saying nite. we were going to met the next day (yest) coz he moving today for work, and for other reasons of what we spoke about. he texted me saying that he cant make when he text me yest morn, coz he stil got to pack. he then sent a text saying 'i know u must be tired so wear that nice smile. i start my job on mon, i have to move to *.x' i replied sayin best wishes for ur job if i dnt spk to u before mon. he texts sayin cal me later. but i didnt call him yet.what do i now? we agreed to be friends. and i told him i cool about it all...i didnt tell him the truth, but there still things i want to talk to him about what do i do...i dont wana lose him altogther.
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reader, candels1234  +, writes (2 November 2007):
hey there,
i would talk to him again and be honest with him, i am a great believer in what is for you wont go by you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): How old are you? You sound kinda young. I think you have thrown him mixed messages. Now he is confused. If i was you i would get in touch with him once more and see how things go. You wanted to be friends and cool it, so you maybe will have to wait to see what he has to say or do next. If it doesnt work out then be prepared to move on and forget all about him.
take care
xx
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