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writes:i am 11 years old and this boy used to fancy me untill i said i didnt fancy him and now he fancies my best friend-but the thing is-he still comes to me and my best friend and annoys us.sometimes he even follows us around.in most classes,i sit next to him and he is sometimes asking me questions he already knows.when he says something in front of the class,he always looks at me afterwards then looks away as soon as i see him and recently i've caught him looking at me and my friend and me when we walk past him.sometimes my best friend pushes me against him and then he shouts out "stop touching my arse" really lound when i didn't really touch him.he also keeps throwing things at me and my best friend .together me and him went up to write something on the board in our english lesson and then people kept calling me and drawing hearts in the air and saying that we were meant to be.i am wondering,does he fancy my best friend does he fancy me or both of us?
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reader, teengirl +, writes (3 November 2007):
 first things first: i dont want to be patronising in any way, but your only 11.
im 14 been through it all lol.
to me it seems this boy likes you, and is trying to make you jealous through you best friend, and it looks like it may be working.
you need to think about yourself for a bit. do you like him? do you think hes good enough for you?
this is getting to you because you like him. and even if you dont admit it i think you do.
some boys are players and try to mess around with a girls head, they think differently to us and this can cause problems.
i hope i helped :)
teengirl xx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Hello.
Because you have turned him down sorry to say it looks as if he is more that likely trying to go out with your friend, you really need to see how he acts with your friend when she is on her own, then you will now through his reaction to her, if he is trying to go out with you both then the best thing to do is dump him, you really dont want him to come between you and your best friend.
Hope this will help you, good luck
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 It sounds as if he is fancying the both of you.
Does your friend fancy him also??
If so then this could be a problem. You need to think what is best for you. Friendship that could last forever or a romance that at such a young age could change with in a week.
Please remember you are only 11 and have a lot of living to do and a lot of things to think about before you get involved with someone.
Concentrate on school and having fun with your friends, to me that is what seems most important.
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reader, angel of love  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 well in my opinion he fancies you...but since you rejected him he went for the next best thing...your bestfriend...every boy knows that if the girl you like turns you down hit on her bestfriend and make her jealous...it works 2 out of three times...its mostly because at first you don't feel anything but when you see him hitting on your bestfriend you start to feel jealous and feelings start to show...you begin to realize that you like the way he picks on you and you like the way he is...so if you know what you want go for it...because it not always better late then never....especially in the feild of love...
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