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*babygirl101327
writes:I would like to become pregnant but my hubby won't cum inside, he says not now we are not ready but I am so I got him off with a blow job then let him cum in my hand then I went in the bathroom in put it in my vagina. Can I get pregnant like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): He said he isnt ready so it was wrong to betray him, that could be a huge decision you just made for him. How selfish...
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reader, Tbabygirl101327 +, writes (22 November 2007):
Tbabygirl101327 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to let u all know im not pregnant.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Good for you. I am very happy that you decided to be honest with him! I hope that everything works out for you guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Its great that you came clean to your husband, at least if you are pregnant then he is aware of how and in the long run will not resent you or the child for the stunt you pulled. I completely understand how desparation for a child can kick in and how its hard to consider anyone but yourself at that time but a baby should be made with the consent of both parties and brought up and loved by both parties. Well done, I hope you get all that you dream of x
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reader, Tbabygirl101327 +, writes (11 November 2007):
Tbabygirl101327 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU ALL FOR SUCH WONDERFUL ADVICE. I HAVE EXPLAINED TO MY HUBBY WHAT WAS GOING ON AND HE AGREED THAT IF I BECOME PREGNANT WE WILL WORK THIS OUT AND I TOLD HIM I ONLY DID THIS THE 1 TIME. AND NOW IM VERY SCARED TO BE PREGNANT CASUE I RELIZED HOW MUCH I LOVE AND DECEITED HIM. I HAVENT FOUND OUT YET IF IM PREGO. BUT IM GONNA KEEP U ALL POSTED JUST AS SOON AS I KNOW.AGAIN THANX FOR THE ADVICE. OXOXOX(Mod note: please do not reply in all caps. it's difficult to read and it looks like you're yelling, thanks.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): I agree with rockelle: How would you feel if he held you down & raped you to get you pregant against your will? That's basically what you're doing to him.
This relationship is no place to bring a child into the world. Children shouldn't be purposely conceived for selfish reasons.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 I will first say that it is an interesting plan, but I must register my disapproval. It's very dishonest of you to put your husband in that situation, knowing full-well that doesn't want a child with you just yet. This is something you should talk to him about, and if you cannot persued him, you mustn't throw him into that situation. How do you think he will react? Because I can't see him simply saying "Oh! LOL! You got me! I guess we'll just have to have it now...". I shouldn't work like that.
You are trying to have a child with him against your will, and that isn't right. This, morally, is a terrible, terrible plan. In going ahead with it, you run the risk of killing both your marriage and your husbands trust.
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reader, MonDoc  +, writes (6 November 2007):
Yes...physically you can.
It's also a good way to get divorced.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (2 November 2007):
How would you feel if you did not want a baby and your husband held you down and raped you and got you pregnant? You would be devastated I am sure. He has a choice, if you can not live with the decision that he has made you need to sit down and discuss it like an adult. If you are considering becoming a mother you need to think like one. That means doing what is best for the child, and a resentful,and upset father is not what will be best for you or your baby.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (2 November 2007):
 Hello.
yes you may get pregnant, but do not forget that sperm does degrade, if it is in the the fresh air for to long, them little critters like to be in a warm moist environment, but i would consider what you are doing very carefully, if your husband object to having a baby at this time, then he will not take to kindly to you using this deception to get pregnant,he may believe that you have been sleeping around and that will give you big problems, he will not believe you when you tell him the way you have you have become pregnant, and then your lives will go down hill very quickly,you will have to broach the subject again with him, impress on him how you feel that know you the time is right to start a family,and waiting is causing you heart ache,please think very carefully about the way you are going about this, after all you do not want to be bringing up a baby on your own.
I wish you well, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): You can get pregnant this way because the sperms are very strong and determined blighters! But why do it this way, babies should be made and born out of love and not deceit. This is definatley deceit in my books and if you do fall pregnant then be prepared to fetch the child up on your own, because you have done this one on your own!! Not a good start to a childs life.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Trust me the last thing you want is to get pregnant like this. I got pregnant with my partner after i got pregnant he decided he wasnt ready and i had 9 months of him kicking me out then deciding he wanted me back. Then a week later he kicked me out now the baby is here we are okay ish but he still regrets it and doesnt hide his feelings either. It is a miserable life for me and my baby.
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reader, superdopah +, writes (2 November 2007):
yes you can get pregnant but how would you feel if he took absoloutley no reguard for your feelings and ignored you completley, you wanna hope you dont get pregnant
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): This is a rather deceitful way of trying to get pregnant, and yes, it is possible.
He may change his mind about it if you do get pregnant, but be prepared for some resentment. A baby is something you should both want in equal measure.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Yes you can get pregnant like that but you really shouldnt have done it. If your partner is not ready for a baby but you are then you should have waited for him.To an extent you have betrayed him, he was honest enough to tell you he wasnt ready. If the tables had been turned would you have allowed him to make that descission for you?
If you do get pregnant and he doesnt want it be prepared for your husbsnd to resent the child for coming along.
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