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reader, AskEve  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Then he doesn't deserve you and you're better off without him. 14???? Is he nuts????
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reader, uganut86  +, writes (7 November 2007):
uganut86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question We broke up over this and because he was cheating on me with one of the girls. She is 14 and he is 20.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 November 2007):
If he feels the same way when you see guy friends then maybe you should both agree not to see members of the opposite sex until you can fully trust one another. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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reader, uganut86 +, writes (2 November 2007):
uganut86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: We have been together for a little over a year. We have taken a break for three months once before. I talked to him about my fellings he said that he understood they way that I felt. He said he fells the same way when I spend time with my friends that are guys. We are going to meet up as soon as possible to talk about everything.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 November 2007):
No, I definitely wouldn't go to see him, that WILL only make matters worse, he'll just see that as more pressure. If I were you I'd leave him a voice mail. Keep it light and say you're sorry you got into an argument with him but you miss him but you DO trust him and hope he has fun.
You DO need to talk about this with your boyfriend though. If he has feelings for you at all then he should see that this kind of behaviour is leaving you insecure. He needs to reassure you big time that you are the only one he cares about and if he can't do that then it might be time to have a rethink about where this is all going. How long have you been together for anyway?
Eve
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reader, uganut86 +, writes (2 November 2007):
uganut86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk here is what is going on with this situation. I don't know the girls. We have broken up in the past over me being to clingy. We have had fights over things in the past. Last night when we got off the phone he didn't say I love you and he always does. I called him when I left for lunch at work today he didn't answer his phone and I didn't leave a message. I was temepted to just go see him tomorrow but I am scared that would make things worst. Should I just not try to get a hold of him for a few days.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 November 2007):
You're probably feeling a bit left out. The big question is... Do you trust him? If the answer is yes then you have nothing to worry about. It might be a good idea to phone him up and apologise for your outburst but tell him that you miss him and would like to see him more often. Tell him you don't mind him going and hope he has fun. Give him the benefit of the doubt here, I'm sure you really do have nothing to worry about. At least he told you he was going and didn't hide it from you.
Meanwhile YOU get out with some of your friends too and don't sit in thinking about it all the time. I'm sure everything will be fine.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Once a month? I'd break up anyway. He is likely cheating on you, men need sex more than once a month.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (2 November 2007):
hmmm i dunno bout this one. it dusnt really help the situation that you dont see him very much, but trust is a real key to this relationship. does he have a reputation of being quite a ladies man in past or anything lilke that? if not then i think you shud just trust him. hes told you you shudnt worry. i know how you feel. you dont really know what to think. i would just ask him about the girls, you know if theyve got bf's or theyre single. but i wud only ask once, dont keep going on about it bcus he might think ur really jealous. anywayz hope this helps, tell us if anything happens, and good luck for the future :) god bless
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ellie
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