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Does this man still love me or what?

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Question - (2 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2007)
A female Kenya age 36-40, *ylli writes:

there is this man in my life.we met 5years ago,but later on broke up after going out for 2years coz he had fell out of love.

keeping in mind that i had already aborted his kid.we remained friends and since then the friendship has become more serious even than it was when we were together.since we broke up,he happens to have made love to me more than the current girlfriend.i spend most of my time with him and vice versa.

the girlfriend happens to be my friend and am not sure if she knows about us.

i still love the man,coz since then it has been hard for me to fall in love with someone else.

my question is,does this man still love me or what?pls help me am in a dilemma.

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A female reader, sylli Kenya +, writes (3 November 2007):

sylli is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the advices that you pple are giving.they are helping a bunch.

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2007):

peaches83 agony auntI think he is just getting the best of both worlds really.

He has got his claws into you and you have allowed him to. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you and not the girl he is with.

Walk away and start afresh with someone that is willing to love you and no one else and be with only you.

good luck

Peaches

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Sounds to me like its a case of him having his cake and eating it too!!

All you can do is ask him how he feels about you and is there a future for you both??

If he wants to be with you, he has to be honest with his g/friend, If he picks the g/friend over you - walk away!

No looking back or goin back!!! Yeah you may think you will find no one like him agian - but do you really want to be with some one who already has a g/f and is just using you for sex???

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