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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Last Dec I met a guy from my past(we never dated just casual kissing)and the attraction we had when we were teenagers is still there. We used to go to the same place on hols and it is there Ive met him again after 5 years. Its always been the same whenever we're in the same room he always goes out of his way to get my attention and will always end up in my company. I've never seen him chatting up other girls and he doesnt have the reputation of being a player.We swapped numbers but didnt keep in contact.5 weeks ago we met again.He told me that he has always cared for me. I kept saying that Im only a challenge to him as Im in a relationship and we never got further than kissing. Which he obviously denied.We spent hours chatting and I walked away thinking that we had a future and that I was going to break up with my boyfriend even though he said that he really cared for me but didnt want to break up my relationship (i'm single now but he doesnt know that). We texted all sat and a few on Sun. I sent a few txts during the week but he never responded. A week later I got a birthday text and I asked if I could see him when I got back from my holiday (with my exboyfriend!)again he didnt respond.I dont know what to do. Does he like me or is he playing me??? We only talk when we're in the same place where we first met and when some alcohol is involved. What should I do? I dont want to keep texting him if he's not interested
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reader, lil'shade  +, writes (1 November 2007):
Gurl he's using you for the drinks. I mean you texin him & he's not textin back. Plus you called. You broke up wit yo boyfriend 4 nothin & he could have cared bout you.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (1 November 2007):
 He may be cutting himself off because he thinks you have a boyfriend; why would he keep flirting with someone who's unavailable? I think now is the time to be honest with him and see what happens next.
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