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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Is my boyfriend of one and a half years bi or gay or do I just have a lame boyfriend?Things I've noticed.........He isn't Metrosexual. He dresses in jeans and hoodies with a ball cap on all the time.He has very feminine mannerisms in many ways. i.e. how he holds a cigarette, stands, holds items etc. His reactions to "gross" things are girlish.He is skiddish approaching me about sex. He doesn't talk about it, make jokes about it, flirt, he doesn't make the right moves and when he does make a move it's usually in the dark in bed. He arkwardly kisses me. He seems to be uncomfortable asking for what he wants. He tells me he loves me too often, gives me peck kisses way too much. He calls me on every one of his breaks at work whether he has something to say or not. He cleans like my mom does even through our house is clean because I cleaned it. He concentrates way too much on small tasks. I am not sure about this but he was raised by a religious sheltered family in the midwest. He hasn't seemed to have done much. He doesn't like going anywhere but his parents house and shopping. Could all these strange things be because the sheltered life?
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reader, gold digga  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 i think that your not hapy in this relationship he might be bi, gay or straight but by the sounds of things you want to get out of it and start a fresh with someone new, you need to think is this the man you want to be with? if not you need to end it sooner than later or its just going to get harder and harder to do, it might be hard to do but you need to know your happy and by the sounds of things your not. take care x x x
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Regardless of whether he is gay, bi, or straight, is this the guy you want to be invested in? After a year and a half, you should know which way his gate swings. In any event, you seem like you're unhappy and ready to look elsewhere. If he's not providing you with what you expect out of a relationship, it's time to move on . . . regardless of whether he lived a sheltered life or not.
Good luck.
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