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anonymous
writes:My happiness just isn't returning...It's been 7 months since my girlfriend of 3 years put an end to our relationship. She has since moved on, but I am left a much less happier man than I once was.I don't think anything made me happier than being in the company of my girlfriend, and now she's out of my life, and I just can't seem to deal with it.I can't stand being less happy than I used to be. I'm at a complete loss, and need help. Can you advise me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): You must move on and leave the past behind. It isnt easy, i do know that. I think you may be suffering from some mild form of depression. Why dont you go along to your doctors and get checked out. Tell him exactly what you have told us and he may be able to point you in the right direction. You could just need a short course of mild anti depressants.
take care
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reader, selflove-always-first +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Ok, learn this my friend, in life things are the way they just because. your lesson here is, you need yourself happy and not expect from others to make you happy, you must love yourself in order to love others. its really simple. So go out there find your passions (what you really enjoy doing, biking, photography, reading, exercise, running) be happy and then se what happens, Relax, life is not that serious. Smile good things happen when you do. Is not logical to think that you are less happy know, I blame hollywood and their brain wash on us, in films and music with such titles as "I can't live without her/him" - "She is the best that happened to me" - or "I'm loss without him/her" that is bolony, not true, comom you are way smarter than that, you care way to much, chances are that is way she left, don't persue her, don't chase her, be happy and relax and she'll be back. Just let go.....shall you....Good luck----Don't be to dependent have a life with others around , don't center your world in one human being.
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