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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): MORE INFO PLEASE.
Why are you even listening to your ex. Just push him out of your mind and your life and get on with things. It is simple, if he isnt around then you wont hear him. If you dont answer his call the same applies. Cut him out of your life unless you have kids, but your question is way too small. Even with kids, you can have arranged times for him to see them and make him stick to that, you dont even have to be there, get a relative or friend to be the go between.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Stay away from your ex. Why are you two still fighting over things when you too are separated? Is it pride? Is it ego that you two find pleasure in doing?
Yes, you may probably still have feelings for each other, since you two are still talking about the past, but you can make a choice here: A) sit down and talk it out to your heart's content and give each other the freedom to express themselves and ask questions, or B) just stop yourself from talking with her.
Are you two seeking closure? If you are, do A, if not, and it's all just ego and pride, I'd pick B.
If you want better help from any of us, it would help to tell us what you two are fighting over exactly.
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