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writes:so i'm 15. and theres this boy weve been close friends for 1 1/2 yrs but we've known each other for 3. anyway, we started talking in may, in june my bday month he said he was gonna give me 2 gifts that i couldn't physically keep,{i thought a kiss and him askn me out} i got a kiss on the cheek n nothing else. we talked the whole summer and when we started school in the end of july we got even closer...he still hadn't asked me out. then in september i started seeing him talkin to this other girl. i had asked him to the movies but something told me he didnt really want to go...and he didnt go either. he decided to go out with her in mid sep. and told me that we were on a bestfriend level to him and i told him that if thats wat he wats then alrite but i told him how i felt about him. in the beginning of october they broke up i dont kno who dumped who though. but while they were dating we talked on the fone all nite and hung out together at football games while she was walkin by us and he still gave me long hugs in the hall. now that they broke up he's been kissing my cheek, hittin my butt, tryin to make me late to class, talkn to me on the fone alnite and just hanging on me. i just dont kno if he really likes me or if jus wanted to date me and the other girl. but my question is ::should i keep tryin to go out with him??or should i move on??:: any advice would be helpful to me
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Hello.
If there is another girl involved then it is time to move on, he has had 3 years to ask you out but when he had the chance he did not, he asked some one else, and i wounder if the other gf left him because he was doing the same with her, he is toying with you or he plans to cheat on two girls at the same time, it is a shame that you are not friends with his latest ex, maybe you could ask her why she suddenly finished with him, or even a friend of his ex, what ever the reason he is bad news for you, you really do not want to get involved with people who two time, it will only break your heart, and at 15 that would really be a bad thing to happen to you, if he phone you again you maybe should stop taking his calls, the more you talk to him he will continue to think he can still pull your strings,and you will only be hurt by him, i am glad that you are mature enough to ask this question, because your friend is not.
I wish you well and hope you make the right decision for you good luck.
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