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*lliebellie
writes:ahahah please help i have messed up so badly. basically its a long story. theres this guy hu went to my old primary school. we used to fancy each other like mad. now i finally found him online and we have started talking online. everything was going fine till he sed have u ever pulled? i was like what does pulling mean help help? then i was like no never pulled. then he sed dont wanna offend you but are you frigid? i didnt no wat to say. i was like i dunno that many boys so thats probably why. he keeps talking bout bases. then saying do u actually know what they are? i was like yh.......then the last thing i sed to him was: so if u get a guys number go on a date then have u pulled. he just sed you arent at a stage yet. thats all he sed. then he signed off. im really confused. has my ignorance in bases and pulling made me look seriously stupid infront of this guy. now he thinks im frigid. ahahah will i ever be able to talk to him again???lolellie
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (4 November 2007):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to all. actuallly anom, this guy well he used my ignorance of sex generally against me and was really rude and horrible to me (you can see my question on should i block him) so we both went our separate ways. i go to a girls school too so i guess we have summing in common :)
lol thanks everyone though for you answers
ellie
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Hey! I'm a 15 year old girl and I only just learnt about bases last year - i felt silly asking what they meant, but luckily my friends just explained it to me and that was that! I'm no better off than before! Don't worry!
Ummm...about the boy. He said you're frigid? Hmmmm...I bet boys would say that about me. lol. Prob the reason i haven't had a bf yet. But i have an excuse: i go to an all girls school!
I'm sure you'll be able to talk to him again. Just take your own time, and when you're ready go talk to him and pretend that conversation never happened.
Again, don't worry about it! x x x
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reader, onkybonx  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 if he is foolish enoughto stop taking to you over that he is not only very disrespectful but totally immature...he's the one that looks stupid...
however if you do want to continue taking to him , then just tell him you and your friends use different words for stuff, so if you get confused he'll have to explain what he means..if he coninues to make fun of you he is an idiot and you should give him at least 5 yrs to grow up...
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