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reader, rockelle  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 I wouldn't advise you to have sex without a condom. Even if she takes the pill how can you be sure that she is taking them everyday? You need to protect yourself from an unplanned pregnancy that will change the rest of your life. So always use condoms. She may want to have a baby and you do not. You never know. You may trust her, but it is not a good idea to put your future in someone elses hands.
Just my opinion.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (1 November 2007):
 This link has the "pregnancy rates" for various birth control "methods": http://www.fda.gov/Fdac/features/1997/conceptbl.htmlWithdrawal has a 19% pregnancy rate. So basically, you have a 1 in 5 chance of getting her pregnant every time you have sex with her.You do the math. Those are lousy odds.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Why risk it?? There is no point. STD'S and pregnancy isn't something to risk. It's stupid.Just use a condom, it's not hard. There is a chance of pregnancy when pulling out because of pre-cum. I do know people who have been fine and luckily no babies have arrived. Just be careful, and don't take the risk!Good Luck X
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): As said by the others: why take the risk? Even if you don't pre-ejaculate, there are already over one mllion sperm on the tip of your penis so you could get her pregnant even if you withdraw before ejaculation. Plus you could get an STD! Just use contraception, it is much safer and removes almost all worries.
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (1 November 2007):
 DrPsych is right. Pre-ejaculate can get your girlfriend pregnant.
And furthermore, why take the risk?? Wouldn't it be safer jsut to use contraception and practically gaurentee to avoid pregnancy, AND STD's? Think about that.
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reader, jodie +, writes (1 November 2007):
 hi hi bbe!Even though you don't think you're 'cumming' doesn't mean that you aren't! Make sure you're using protection if your girlfriend doesn't want to get pregnant already! Like drpsych says, there are transmitted diseases to think about!!!! There's nothing wrong with wearing protection anyway!!!!! x me x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): No, its never ok not to use contraception. There is sperm in the pre-ejaculate which comes out within a few minutes of foreplay, and some sperm continues to come out, a little at a time, unitl you ejaculate. If you have sex with her, she can get pregnant at any time of the month, as well. It is by far the most common for women to ovulate at about 14 days after their periods, but I know women who ovulate during the end of menstruation even! So, if you dont want a baby, dont risk it! If you know that you both have no STIs, then you can always think about going on the pill, so you dont have to use physical contraception, which feels the same as none at all!I hope this helps, and if you are really bothered by condoms, i would really reccomend the pill. Theres a lot out there and she can find one thats right for her!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (1 November 2007):
 You are not the master of self control that you think you are. It is entirely possible to get a girl pregnant from the pre-ejaculate (that you cannot always feel) - the withdrawal method has a poor rate of protection and of course there are also sexually transmitted diseases to think about. Why not seek advice from a family planning clinic to find some protection that works for you as a couple.
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