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writes:My girlfriend of 7 months wants to end it as she says her feelings for me are fading, we have just been to Amsterdam and had a great time and she was fine and happy all the time we where there.im just looking for a way to get her to see the good and not just the bad things. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): things did not work out and we have now split i feel so low right now i have no idea what to do, but both your help was gr8 help for me and thx
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reader, onkybonx  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 All you can do is try to work through these isues with your girlfriend, perhaps when she got home from amsterdam the hum drum of being back in everydy life has got her down, maybe its nothing...ask her to explain to you whats wrong, and see what solutions you two can come up with together, however, be prepared, she may have already let go of the relationship in her mind and therefore may not be willing to even give you reasons....if not there's nothing you can do , but walk aay and begin to heal yourself....
i do hope it all works out for the best
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Sit down and talk with her about this. Ask her why she thinks her feelings are changing and ask her why she seemed so happy with you in Amsterdam.
Unfortunetly feelings between people can change and you cant make her see things that may not be there in her anymore. Explain how you feel to her and see what she says :)
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