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*elhel
writes:OK heres the thing, i really like a lad who like me as well. He has a gf.I really feel a strong attractivness towards him.He has always thought of himself as the ugly one and says first he has nothing and then something big comes along (me), and he already has a gf.He says to me that sometimes he wishes he didnt have a gf, but says he wont dump her because he loves her.We always talk about 'us', i dont want him cheating on his gf either.I've told him that he is making it hard for me, always complimenting me and telling he likes me, he sed 'I dont want it to be easy because i like you, and i dont want you getting over me quicker than i do you, and i feel you need complimenting cause your sweet and pretty'. I dnt think he will get over me because he has been dating his gf for a year and never even looked at another girl. And then i come along an he has all these feelings.But i have this feeling that i wont get over him because he is the nicest guy you will ever meet, and i feel the nicer he is to me, the stronger feelings i will have. Help me i am so confused and he's all i think aboutXXX Reply to this Question
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reader, Helhel +, writes (1 November 2007):
Helhel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, we've put up a barrier that we will just be friends,
I feel so gutted and sad, i just want to cry my eyes out.
I told him not to do anything to his gf and he agreed but said we can stop our feelings, but we are going to try
Wish me luck for the future :(
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reader, gold digga +, writes (1 November 2007):
 hey im 17 and i had this prblem not too long ago, but i had to think that this boy has chosen to be with that girl not me, he doesent want to end it with his girl friend but he didnt want to let me go neither so i decided i had to move on and i just kept thinkin even if he does in time end it with his girlfriend would he do the same to me and start wondering off. i think you need to tell him you cant do this no more he has a girlfriend and he says he loves her you need to respect that and even if you dont get over him you need to try and move on. take care, x x x
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