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*aogwan
writes:hey people just wanted to know..what is the best form of contraception?? because me n my gf have jus have sex for the first time (we were both virgins) we used a condom bt I dnt feel anything n im not enjoying the sex as much as her. I want to feel it more what are the best condoms???please bear in mind we used featherlite condoms last time n it spilt! wich has put me off..and my erection sometimes goes when putting the codnom on and when trying to insert it because it so hard to put in!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): The best form of contraception is abstaining from sex all together. I know that isn't what you wanted to hear but with any form of contraception, there are risks of stil getting her pregnant. For example, you used a condom & it split! I would reccommend her getting on the pill, and you watch her take it every day b/c a lot of females lie or forget to take the pill. Then use a back up form of b.c. such as spermicidal foam. Always use a back up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): hmmm, i recommend condoms and pulling out for any sketchy sexual encounter. but now with my girlfriend, and i know she is on the pill, then i dont use condoms but i still pull out.
just me and has worked for over 10 years.
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 I just looked this up for another question. It's a table with the rates of pregnancy for various birth-control methods: http://www.fda.gov/Fdac/features/1997/conceptbl.htmlIf she's willing, the birth control pill is 99% effective.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (1 November 2007):
 It depends on the person or couple. What is most popular is the pill as well as the condom. This gives you a much higher safety level taking both than just using a condom which may split. Talk to your girlfriend about it, see what she wants. Take care in choosing!For best condoms, again it depends on the person. Ask your mates see what they use. Just get some friendly adviceGood Luck. X
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (1 November 2007):
 The best sort of contraception is one that works best for you...everyone is different in their preferences. I would suggest you go to a family planning clinic for some advice and take your GF too.
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