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writes:I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying that she is pregnant with his child. I just dont know what to do, he tells me it was a mistake and that he loves me. He couldnt be sorry enough but i just need some advice on what to do, its torn me apart and i just dont know what to do for the best.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 What do you think you need to do? What do you think is for the best? You have children, they have to be taken into account. The fact that another little one is on the way needs to also. You also need to look at this other person in a way that she mentioned being pregnant after he broke it off with her. I'd relax a bit with something like that. There could be a chance, but there could also be a chance that she likes him is and willing to lie to attempt to trap him.
Also if he met her on a stag night, is he the only one she'd recently been with, or is there a chance the baby may be someone else.
If he really loves you and is sorry, I'd wait before doing anything until you have filled in the missing pieces to the puzzle.
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