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writes:I feel I have to ask you advice, i've been in several, relationships, and they alway end the same way. I do everything the woman asks. I give my all.So much so i've had a nervous breakdown.Any way after recovering. I started dating again. On our first date. We met up and I paid her a few compliments. Then I said lets go, for a stroll, and chat, she said no I would rather have a COFFEE. I said bye.Two weeks later she phoned me. What does this mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sassister  +, writes (1 November 2007):
First of all, don't throw yourselves completely into relationships. You'll burn out, they will burn out and you will be left feeling bitter. Secondly, did you ever think that she might feel more comfortable meeting with you in a public place, say like having coffee, on a first date? I met up with a man in a park one time. We went for a stroll. I turned and looked the other way. He grabbed me and started kissing roughly and unhooked my bra! I stomped on his foot, yelled very loudly and ran. There were people around who did nothing. A park or strolling outdoors is not a safe place for a woman to meet a man for the first time.She's calling you because she liked you and does not want to believe that you would harm her, but you have to realize that she was probably just trying to protect herself during that first date. So show some respect for her and you and give it another try.And please don't emotionally invest everything right off the bat. Take your time or you will miss out on a really great girl!Also, do read that Men are From Mars, Women From Venus book. It will explain a great deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Darned if I know!
What did she say????
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 What do you think she meant by she'd rather have a Coffee?
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