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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for nearly 2 months now, after she ended our relationship. Prior to being with her, I had dated seriously twice, and fooled around with both girls and occasionally other girls while I was single, but I had never had vaginal intercourse with anyone save my recent ex. I am usually a serial bachelor, as I am independent and have always focused seriously on my education. For what it's worth, I am 23 years old. I had remained a virgin largely for religious reasons (I am Catholic), and also because I never thought that I cared enough about someone to have sex with them. While I only dated my ex for approximately six months, we were sexually active. It seems that a lot of my memories of our relationship are associated with sex--not just having sex, but the novel experience and closeness that I felt because of it. I have never been hung up on an ex this long before, and am starting to think a large part of my general sadness over the breakup has to do with the fact that I lost my virginity to my ex. Is there anything I can to help me get over my ex, given this?
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reader, MeowMix86 +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hello! I would like to add to the comment made by Flower Girl...shes right. I personally don't know anyone who is still with the person they lost their virginity to. Honestly...alot of people don't even consider their 'first time' special...my first time was akward and quick...and I don't really remember the details such as when exactly it was or how it happened...what was said. Your first time isn't always "magical". Take it as a learning experience and move on. Even though its hard to let go of someone you were so close to, its important to realize that time will heal all. The pain will definatley pass...and whose to say that your next girlfriend won't blow your ex outta the water? Take what you've learned and apply it to someone you will be with in the future...someone who deserves your love and someone who will appreciate it.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Sometimes you don't get over your first until you meet someone else.
The first person you sleep with you always remember and you will never forget their name or how it was, you just have to get on with your life i mean honestly how many people do you know that are still with the person they lost their virginity to.
Take care.xx.
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