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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I split up with my first serious boyfriend a few months ago. However, we carried on sleeping together, talking everyday etc, basically carrying on as normal. Then he went travelling alone for a month, and on another holiday. During the time he was away, I was very depressed. He got back a few days ago, and have continued as we were before he went away, the only difference being that he has made new friends and wants to spend a lot of time with them. I asked him if we could get back together as I am miserable without him. He is unwilling to do this, but still says he loves me and that he is fine with us just 'seeing' each other. I don't know what to do, I don't want to be a pathetic woman just at his beck and call, but I also love him very much. What would anyone do in this situation?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi
I think you will just be at his beck n call to be honest.
I wouldnt go for that, but thats me.
He wants to be able to see other girls by the sound of it.
Saying you are miserable without him, gives him the green light to take advantage.
I would STOP sleeping with him. Hes having his cake and eating it basically. What a life!
You dont say why you split?
But splitting then carrying on as normal, has pretty much lost you control & gained him loads of it by the sound of this.
Be strong & find someone thats into proper relationships. It sounds like thats what you want?
Dont sell yourself short.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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