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30-35,
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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago coz he snogged another girl, 2 weeks later we met up and talked about it so we could be mates, I found out that he was lying about a lot of stuff such as going out with the person he snogged and stuff. We had a mini argument about it but left it. We started talking then randomly he started to be really out of order to me I don't know what the hell is wrong with him. I wish I knew what was going on in his head! I dont know whether it was because my screen name was my new fave song called "Over you". I just wish I knew what was happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): Sounds like he isn't ready to settle down with 1 girl. Which is normal b/c you are only teenagers. He's lieing and cheating on you and he feels bad about it in a way b/c I think him being mean to you is his way of trying to get you to not want to talk to him anymore. In that way he wouldn't have to feel quilty anymore about what he did. Let him be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): We can't tell you what's in his head, but one thing is certain: he is now your EX-boyfriend.Which means - when its over, its over; finished, past history, and so that you can BOTH get past a now-defunct relationship and move on with your lives separately, you don't attempt to be friends, mates, friends-with-benefits or "friends" anything. Which means: you don't call one another, or text, email, go out for drinks, coffee, lunch, a movie, whatever. If you SHOULD just happen to run into him at a social event, then whether you are with other friends or on your own, you either ignore him, or beyond a somewhat curt, "hi how are you" out of politeness, you act as if he wasn't there.These are the "rules" for dealing with an ex. Of course, if you should hear that his mother, grandmother or other close family member has died, you can then tell him you are sorry to hear it - but again, make it brief.Anyway, this man is lying to you, and doesn't really give a cuss about your feelings, so don't waste your breath talking about him and what's going on in his head! Not worth it!
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