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female
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*achick85
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now. A year ago, he said some pretty hurtful things. He called me fat and ugly, and even worse than that. the next day he said he was stressed about school, and for some reason i forgave him. A few months later he told me he liked another girl, but the next day he appologized, and yet again i forgave him. I just stared to think I shouldn't take the relationship so seriously. Now a year has passed and recently I broke up with him because i thought that i feel out of love with him, but we got back together. He is trying very hard now and I know that he loves me. Things have changed greatly for the better. However, I'm confused as if to I am still in love with him. He is a great guy, cares about me a lot (now at least), is trying VERY VERY hard to make us work, and he has a lot going for him. I have a GREAT time with him.Question is.....Would you recommend I stay with him and try to fall back in love, or should I just throw in the towel, after 2 years? As of now, I am VERY confused about my own feelings. I think they are changing for the better. I am happy when he is around, but sometimes I don't feel attracted to him because of our past. should I hope for things to get better or not?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi, you should think about giving things another chance, it has been 2 years.If you dont love him you should not string him along by giving him mixed signals. You can also suggest being friends and see where that ends up.Try and make a decision with you ur head and not your heart
Good luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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