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writes:Me and my wife are celebrating our anniversary next Saturday. I'm planning on taking her away for a dirty weekend. The kids are being looked after and the hotel is booked. We have been married for 7 years. I'd like some ideas of what we could do, I want to make this as passionate for her as possible as well as exciting and really fun. We will be doing other stuff like going places as well but I want it all to be a part of it! Any suggestions? We have never really done anything like toys or anything as we aren't really into that it's just been normal passionate sex or oral, it's never really been planned either, just seems to happen but recently we have been getting the feeling of wanting to do it even more and wanting to be closer, so any ideas would be great!! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): Lucky you! My boyfriend and I recently decided to go away to a hotel and I dressed as his PA. Having a dirty theme really got us going - but to be honest half the fun was the build up - we really wound each other up for a couple of days prior with dirty texts and stuff and the result surprised us both and put some sparkle back into our relationship. Maybe you could tell her what you've done and what you want to happen and this will really stimulate her beforehand - and give her real pleasure in preparing for it, thinking in advance and doing all the pampering things us girls love doing before a great weekend like that. Just a thought or two! Have fun :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): well, as far as sex is concerned, I have no idea how open the two of you are but I personally think that a lot of women are afraid to tell their men exatly what they like in bed. Sometimes guys think they have a certain wonderful technique and women just let them believeiy in order to not hurt their feelings. I find it relieving when a man tells me to tell him exactly what I want him to do to me... everyone is different but this is a way to learn more about your wife and take the fear out of her because she is only doing as YOU have asked. Then you can to the same for her. I love it when my man gives me gentle orders cuz then know Im pleasing him. Have fun!!
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