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writes:My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in.He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage.I went round our old home tonight as arranged, to talk about what time the removal men would be coming etc. My ex had bought lots of new stuff ie new duvets, ornaments etc.Later on, I went back round (I don't know why as I knew it would end up badly) and his new girlfriend's expensive car was parked outside, so I couldn't help myself and knocked on the door.I had a go at him and even had a go at hitting him.He says I am a nut case and has said he has told the police if anything happens to his expensive car or her expensive car it will be me who is responsible. I have to say I wouldn't do that - but I do worry that I am a nut case and that is (as he says amongst other things) the reason he wanted me out.He has treated me so bad over the past 8 months, and I did feel I was moving on, but tonight feels like a step backwards and I am hurting a lot.
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reader, Rock chick +, writes (15 February 2008):
Rock chick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiIt's been a while since all that happened.I have moved on and have my own home, started dating again, and have a job and a little car, to run around in.financially, it's going to be a struggle, but he has done me a massive favour
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reader, deja3575  +, writes (14 August 2007):
I know it's painful and that'll take time to heal. You'll come to see that you are better off without this jerk. You deserve better.
Pick up the pieces the best you can and take care of you. Don't worry about what he's doing. Live for you and make yourself happy. Living well is the best revenge. You'll be the winner in the long run.
God bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): You are not a nut case. He is totally selfish and you need to take control of yourself and your situation and rise above his attitude. Be the better person and turn this situation around - because at the end of the day he has to deal with his own guilt for cheating. Stand tall and be smart about the way you deal with him from now on - don't take things lying down but be one jump ahead. Be ruthless but clever and show him that you are far from a nut case. Put your needs first and do it with support. I hope he enjoys the material things in life (expensive cars) - it sounds like he's devoid of any emotional value. See this as your opportunity to shine.
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reader, Rock chick +, writes (14 August 2007):
Rock chick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you
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reader, MeowMix86 +, writes (13 August 2007):
 You know what? That guy deserves a slap in the face and then some...and if hes not man enough to take it then hes not even a man is he? Your not crazy...I personally would be upset too but I don't know if I would have enough courage to actually give 'em his come-up-ins. Being treated poorly would make ANYONE into a nut case..and after you putting up with his two flings and dishonesty, he is an idiot for letting you go. Perhaps it is a step backwards but whose to judge...who cares what he says? And whose to say he won't do the same thing to his girlfriend now? She won't be able to tolerate him and he will regret letting you go. But he doesn't even deserve to call you by name. Hold your head up high...because that is bravery few women have. Now maybe you can focus on your mending heart and leave karma to do what it does best.
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reader, girl with a point of view +, writes (13 August 2007):
awww hun thats harsh wat a loser if he cant consider your feelings he is a waste of your time.. all you have to think now is that u got out of it sooner than later. i know what you mean my ex was the nicest person i met till about six months ago and im still getting over it now i may be only young but this past year ive been through so much that older people are going through. all you have to think is that this is a lesson he wasnt right for u and soon someone is going to come into your life and your going to look back and think why did i was 6 years with that bastards . your not a nut case at all ur hurting and knowing you cant stop hurting is fustrating.. hes a nut case for implying that you would do that.. hes the nut case for messing something great up for flings .. best thing to do know is get some sleep and things will be clearer in the morningxx
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