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36-40,
*iceguy07
writes:i love spending time with my girlfriend, i wish we lived together, and she has expressed the same feeling with me. i understand that she needs her time with her family and i need time with my hobbies/activities. but when we first met we would text and talk almost the entire day, even when she was with her family. 8 and a half months in needless to say it is the complete opposite, we text but not even close to a third of the amount that we use to. but when we are together things are great. is this just a sign of maturity in a relationship, or is it a sign of lack of interest in one another, trying to get some space from one another?
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reader, niceguy07 +, writes (13 August 2007):
niceguy07 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all for your thoughts on the matter.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 August 2007):
 I think it's maturity. At the beginning of a relationship, things are usually so energized and there are texts and phone calls and things flying back and forth... and then eventually - usually somewhere around 6-7 months - things start to slow down.
I think this is only a sign of reaching a level of comfort with each other. Congratulations! As long as things are still wonderful between you, it's all good.
Enjoy each other, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, sexi  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi, i don think that there is anything to worry about. If you are still unsure ask her and then you would know where you stand. I just think that she is now comfortable in the relationship (which is a good thing)If you speak to her then she would probably do more to meak you feel better of she would explain her behaviour.
Regards
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi
Maturity in the relationship i would say.
You couldnt possibly keep up the momentem you had in the early days. It always calms down a bit.
Its not really healthy to put all your eggs in one basket & focus solely on each other.
Its a natural progression.
All the best.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): I think it's maturity. When me & my boyfriend where getting to know each other etc we would text throughout the day and then at night we'd stop on the phone till I fell asleep lol. Then when we started going out we saw each other all the time and texted.
Now we've been together since April 05 [over 2 years] and we still see each other all the time but we don't text each other - he doesn't have a phone anymore. But if for a day we don't see each other then I'll ring him and talk for a while.
It depends what works for you - if it works for both of you then you've nothing to worry about.
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