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writes:The situation is a little complex and hard to explain but I'll try my best to explain the essentials. I started going out with this girl knowing she was bisexual and into another girl. We had fun but after a few months, she broke up with me when she had a chance with the girl she liked. That girl, however, broke up with her a few weeks into the relationship. Honestly, I really like this girl (I'm trying to refrain from using the word 'love'). Her friends told me she has considered going out with me again but she is unsure and I personally do not want to rush her since she is on the rebound. I've recently gained access to her email. Terrible, I know, but I just couldn't stop myself. In some conversations, she said she wanted to go out with me, in others, she said she doesn't think she likes me that 'way'. My question is, should I try to talk to her or make a move? Thank you for your help.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 I'm with Rythmandblues. And I will add, if she is not sure, don't push it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): First of all, gaining access to her e-mail without her knowledge makes you a stalker....you are obsessed with a girl who is a huge challenge, unavailable and of a sexual orientation that you do not share. All of this spells disasterous relationship....Please get some help for your obsessive behavior, this is a real sign of your immaturity I am afraid, you are not in like or in love, you are infatuated to the nth degree and making yourself sick over someone who clearly does not want you.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, you asked for an opinion which we have to assume means you want an honest one....reading between your lines, this is what I come up with.
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