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writes:Okay, I had a feeling this guy liked me, and he called me but I never called back because I was busy, and then soon forgot. He then called again a few days later, but he called three times in a row, and left a message. I talked to him after those calls, and we planned to hang out. He never called me again after that for a few more days, and then he showed up at my work. He said he'd phone me that night and he wanted to hang out soon. I'm just wondering is he just wasting my time by saying that he wants to do all this and never actually following through with it or is he interested, but just too busy?? If you're interested in someone wouldn't you want to follow through with plans?? From a guy's perspective if you said you'd call a girl and forgot because you were working or watever is it innocent or are you just wasting the girls time?Not sure if that makes perfect sense... Sorry, but I tried my best to explain! Also it's not the greatest question, but I've been wondering because I keep letting him make plans, (not specfic dates, just like let's hang out this weekend). Reply to this Question
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reader, Zim  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 The simplest way to solve this is to take control and set a specific date. Call him and ask if he'd like to meet up sometime this week for a drink. If he says yes, ask him when he's free. Really try to push a date out of him and then, more importantly, a time and place. Once that is done, then there won't be any excuses for non-appearances. It could very easily be that he's busy and that he tends to lose track of what he's doing once that happens. If he is interested yes, he should follow through with plans, but if you do the above, then at least you'll be able to find out if he is interested or not.;-)I hope that helps. Good luck and have fun!ZIM
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