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writes:I am a 21 year-old female who has lost the passion for sex in my relationship. My fiance wants it all the time, and is beginning to feel rejected. If I am not in the mood it's no fun for either of us, so what should I do?
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Talk to your Fiancee about this. Say your not enjoying sex as much as you used to because of how much you do it.
Try and have sex twice a week and things should get better.
Say to him you will only have sex on lets say Tuesdays and Saturdays. Making him wait for it might just make you feel better about yourself feeling more in control.
Also before sex play around with each other and try new things. This should make sex more intresting
Good luck
Livia
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Don't they say that for the majority of women, sex means so much more than a "physical activity" involving penetration of a penis into a vagina and culminating in an orgasm (of at least one partner)? That to many women, sexual interaction is a means of manifesting or expressing the overall feeling of love toward their partners?
Is that the case with you too? Is yes, then perhaps there is mnore to it than meets the eyes? I mean, are there underlying or unresolved issues between you and your partner that's bothering you? If not, then perhaps it is more because of your partner being "unadventerous" or "unsensitive" in pleasing and satisfying you? (just like DoubleM was asking)
The answer to the first is of course, for you and him to discusss what is bothering you (and he is simply in the dark). The latter, may be a bit easier to address. Guide him. Educate him (and yourself). Find books on Kama Sutra, or websites (google kama sutra positions).
Hope it works out well for the both of you, soon. And that you'll be fully happy again :-)
Cat
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Simple question: Does your fiance please you to sexual orgasms?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): tell him how you feel and if he loves you that wont matter to him. but ofcourse if you ever are in the mood go for it. or maybe sex isnt your problem maybe youve lost your feelings for your fiance.either way you should do what you feel to and it shouldnt matter to him :). good luck
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I think guyz want it more than gals all the time. I hate to say this but you have to learn to fake it, oops, can't believe I said it. But yes, you have to learn to fake it.
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