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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend liked to go down on me a lot but I couldnt really feel anything from it. I mean, its not that I couldnt orgasm, I didnt feel ANY pleasure whatsoever and I can only orgasm through masturbation. He is the only one I have ever been with so I dont know if its him or me. Is this normal?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (24 February 2009):
 Well, you say that he is your "ex boyfriend." Maybe the next guy will know what he is doing down there. I strongly suspect that the ex did not.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (23 February 2009):
 I agree entirely. Have him play around with your clit and see where that takes you. Experiment with different pressures from his tongue or have him use his fingers around that area as well. If nothing else you'll have fun practicing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i guess i should clarify. i dont feel pleasure, i feel a sensation but it doesnt feel good or bad..and i can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.. and i know so many women love oral sex so is it not normal not to find it pleasurable?
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (23 February 2009):
I'm just curious, can you not feel any sensation? Like, was it numb, or just not great feeling? Also, what kind of masturbation practices do you perform? Clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration? Deducing what has made you orgasm before might help figure out why you can't from just oral sex.
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