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When will sex feel good?

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Question - (27 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, the first time like a lot of virgins it was hard and I didn't really expect to climax because he couldn't get it into far anyway. The second time was a lot easier but even though we were at it for about an hour I didn't climax. So my question is, is that normal? And if it is how long does it take? Any suggestions????

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYes, young lady, it is unfortunately quite normal. Young males anywhere in the world typically have no idea at all how to bring a girlfriend to or through a sexual climax. It is estimated that most men never learn how, based on surveys with women. If you are interested in techniques to bring about female orgasm, enter some or all of the following phrases in the search-field at the top of these pages:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009):

Yeah it's normal, in fact the majority of women don't climax from penetration alone and require clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm.

Then again, it is only your second time and perhaps with more practice and better technique you'll be able to reach an orgasm through penetration alone. Try going on top see if that works.

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