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writes:I supose this is a question for the guys/men - Why is it better for a girl to swallow? I was told its very sexy and if the girl that does that for you is amazing. Why?Is it sort of an 'acceptance' thing? And if she spits, is it a 'rejection' thing?thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): One big reason it's a great turn on to come in a partner's mouth is not mainly the idea of the partner swallowing the semen although it's a turn on, but especially that the oral stimulation; which feels great when done properly; continues during the orgasm, the moment of enhanced sentivity to the penis. On the visual side, it's a great turn on to see a partner continue giving oral sex while having an orgasm. The visual and physical combined are amazing. The idea of coming on a partner's face or breasts to avoid having sperm can be fun for some partner at times but never beats the power of giving oral sex on an ejaculating penis in my opinion.
If you simply don't like the taste of semen; you should try to know for sure; then there are techniques to give oral sex without swallowing. You can try tasting some of the semen of your partner's penis after the ejaculation. a small amount, and it pleases a man to have some licking or sucking after as well.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 March 2009):
 In my opinion, oral sex between a heterosexual pair is and should always be mutual and entirely consensual. The truth is that the experience and satisfaction for both genders can be extraordinary with experience and knowledge. While oral sex activities are reportedly medically beneficial and harmless providing the participants are healthy and disease-free, the issue of bodily fluids in both directions is a valid issue with some people. My personal stance is that if mutual satisfaction is achieved, then why not? Oral combined with intercourse is often more effective than simple intercourse alone for many.
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reader, massdestruction3 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Me, myself. It doesn't really matter if they swallor or not cus after ejaculation there pretty much out of it and need to recooperate. Cus i think thats like super good when it's happening or i'm masturbating and stuff but after orgasm i'm like 'eww' or Whatever. But, it seems to be a rejectance issue. And semen isn't really bad for you if you don't mind the taste. But, it's fine for both. Spit if ya can't, swallow if ya don't mind. My girl swallows and she says she enjoys it but it's not like i'd ever ask her to do it for me.
First time I ate pussy I wanted to throw up. And it was a VERY clean one. The vaginal juices taste salty and it's not my thing, but after a while. I loved it, but i love fingering a woman. A handjob for a man isn't so great because most times the girl doesn't know what she's doing and most men have a certain way they want them to be handled. But anyways, swallowing is not a big deal, or deepthroating isn't. If ya wanna, go ahead, if you don't, then don't swallow. Be comfterable and communicate.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (7 March 2009):
 basically, some guys like it, feel acceptance, sure, but some guys hate it, some see it as a degredation to their partner so wont do it even if she wants him to - many woman wont do it because they fel degredated or they just dont like the taste while many women do it because it turns them on being able to do that for their man, or because they want to avoid a mess!
Basically, what im trying to say is, each individual is different and there are many different reasons for each scenario :)
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (7 March 2009):
I think you hit it right on the "head," pun intended.
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