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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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I walked out of his home two weeks ago after he said he didn't want a dead relationship and he hasn't made any contact... do I ring him???
Q. I believe my relationship of 8 years is over. The past 2 years haven't been too good for either of us due to my belief that he was seeing someone else. I'm sure he had a fling but he made a lot of effort to keep us together. Alas my trust was not as ...
A. 15 February 2008: Sorry it has taken so long to answer. It seems to me that your mistrust is still there, but I can't say it is entirely without foundation.
Actually there's no way for you to know when he joined that website. Maybe he was already a member b... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 August 2007: Now you know for sure, for absolutely sure, that he is a liar and was cheating on you for who knows how long. The good part about your testing him was that it led to exposing it. I think your gut feelings warned you something was the matter.
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When I e-mailed the guy I like and didn't get a reply, he said a while later that he forgotten. Does that mean he's not interested?
Q. An update on my situation...I have been friends with this guy for three years now, and when I left school he gave me his email address and told me that he would like us to remain friends. I emailed him about a month ago and he replied a few days ...
A. 28 July 2007: Poster, I missed something: yes, love is self-denying.
However, try to live on your own. You can't rely on anyone else to give you strength to live. You need to find it inside of yourself. Otherwise, how could you love anyone?
Love is more ... (read in full...)
When I e-mailed the guy I like and didn't get a reply, he said a while later that he forgotten. Does that mean he's not interested?
Q. An update on my situation...I have been friends with this guy for three years now, and when I left school he gave me his email address and told me that he would like us to remain friends. I emailed him about a month ago and he replied a few days ...
A. 28 July 2007: Poster, I'm glad I helped you. I told you what I wished I had done in a similar situation which, as you can assume, didn't end well. I hope my mistake will help you. He is not mean for not reciprocating your love. Sometimes we love a person to... (read in full...)
She loves me because I'm Asian!
Q. My Girlfriend of 3 years Just confessed That She Only Loved Me Because Of My Japanese and Chinese Background (She was drunk).. i fell so hurt I've Been with her Since i was 17 She took my virginty and i took hers...I havent been wtih anyone eles and ...
A. 28 July 2007: I'm not sure. This might not be bad, you know. If "Asian" means you have Oriental eyes, and that's all she loves in you, well, that may be a reason. But if by "Asian" she means "a special kind of people", then you have a very good reason to stay ... (read in full...)
When I e-mailed the guy I like and didn't get a reply, he said a while later that he forgotten. Does that mean he's not interested?
Q. An update on my situation...I have been friends with this guy for three years now, and when I left school he gave me his email address and told me that he would like us to remain friends. I emailed him about a month ago and he replied a few days ...
A. 28 July 2007: The anonymous male has said what we men would do. Women are different.
You know, I'm making this story very long because, if you're not clear about where you stand, you could get him and you in a hell of a mess, and that wouldn't be nice.
... (read in full...)
When I e-mailed the guy I like and didn't get a reply, he said a while later that he forgotten. Does that mean he's not interested?
Q. An update on my situation...I have been friends with this guy for three years now, and when I left school he gave me his email address and told me that he would like us to remain friends. I emailed him about a month ago and he replied a few days ...
A. 28 July 2007: Well, some clarification is needed here.
You're asking whether you should reply to his e-mail. Your real question, however, is whether you should continue to e-mail him, since, in your opinion, he's not interested in a relationship with you anym... (read in full...)
My ex left me and I lost my virginity to another girl; my ex is now back on the scene. How do I handle this?
Q. I am 20 years old, and I am going nuts now. My first ex left me for Bible college (pastor's daughter) and we never spoke for about a year, then I started dating this other girl, for almost 2 years and we lost our virginity to each other about a ...
A. 28 July 2007: Sound, very sound advice from Frank.... (read in full...)
Does she mean it when she says we're too good friends to bring in intimacy, or was she just rejecting me nicely?
Q. OPEN TO ALL AGONY AUNTIES. i had a girl i had held as a friend for over 6 years coz we had gone thru the same primary school. This girl is remarkably well behaved but has some problems arising from the unstable marriage her parents have had since sh...
A. 28 July 2007: I cannot agree more with Frank. This is very clear.... (read in full...)
My religious boyfriend knew I wasn't a virgin when he asked me out but now, he has a problem with it
Q. Hi everyone! I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. He's very religious and is against premarital sex, but knew I was NOT a virgin when he asked me out. So far we've had a great relationship, but all of a sudden now he's upset over the ...
A. 28 July 2007: You know, I don't think his attitude is religious at all. First of all, he assumes he is better than you, as if he were above the sinners of this world. That's hardly religious. Wasn't it Christ himself who said, "he who is free from sin shall ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him I'm not going to cheat on him?
Q. Trust issues with my BF: Ok, so we've been together for 11 months. I'm 18, he's 22. He's my first BF, and I'm the first girl he has lasted so long with in a relationship. One of his exes cheated on him with one of his friends. His father abandone...
A. 28 July 2007: A few points before I get to the real answer:
You're not responsible for anything that happened with him before you met him. You're only responsible for the things you do regarding him AFTER you met him.
The fact that you had hook-ups, or wer... (read in full...)
Why do I always fear that I'm going to lose those I care about?
Q. why do i always feel like i'm going to loose all the people around me ? i did loose previously alot of close frineds but the thing is i'm tired of this fear that eventually i'd be loosing everything in my life... so any ideas how to fix this ? f...
A. 28 July 2007: I think you're feeling insecure.
You know, life puts us before changes all the time, and that means sometimes we lose touch with people we love. Many of us don't like this, either. We wish everyone we love stayed in the same place, with us, fore... (read in full...)
In a relationship, what do guys like and not like?
Q. Please someone tell me, what do guys want out of a relationship? do they like to be kissed alot? do they sometimes just want to be left alone? how do they like their girl to act? and what do guys not like? ...
A. 27 July 2007: Sweet thing said it all. Finding out what he wants could work in your advantage. He would see you're interested in making him happy.... (read in full...)
I want to be the one who teaches my 13 year old cousin about sex
Q. My cousin is 13 and when i was young, i kind of explored in her vagina. i didn't know what i was doing. is it ok to teach her things about sex and what to do in a situation where she wants to have sex? i want to be the one to teach her what to do ...
A. 27 July 2007: I agree with the other poster. Be honest: you want to sleep with your cousin. That is wrong.... (read in full...)
I've been hurt so many times, I'm having trouble trusting my new beau
Q. I'm scared! i've been single for 4.5 years now, I've had flings and dates etc nothing more than a few weeks. My last boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant. I took it very badly at the time the break up was slow and ...
A. 27 July 2007: I'm glad I've helped you. I hope you will find everlasting, fulfilling happiness with this man. You deserve this.
We're here for you who feel down and insecure.... (read in full...)
My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!
Q. my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...
A. 27 July 2007: Maybe your wife is also having a hard time choosing who she should be with at the moment. I think you should find the strength to wait.... (read in full...)
My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!
Q. my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...
A. 27 July 2007: Yep, Beckto is so right.... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him. I don't know how to get over him :(
Q. okay im 14 years old and me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. i lost my virginity to him. and now hes dating one of my best friends which is really hard all i ever do is cry over him. what is the best way for me to get over him?...
A. 27 July 2007: I like all the advice, but I'm more with the anonymous poster.... (read in full...)
The night we announced our engagement he went and saw a hooker!!!!!
Q. Hi, my partner and i have been together for 3 years we recently got engaged and today i found out that he went to a hooker the same night we told our friends and family the news.whats even worse is that the same day he got the hooker was the day we ...
A. 27 July 2007: You're so right in feeling this way. What he did was awful, and it would make me suspect very much.
You should think a lot about your situation with this man. And, you should talk to him after you're done thinking. I'm afraid you will have a v... (read in full...)
She believed I was having an affair and we split.. I am devastated! Any advice?
Q. We were together and in love for 5 years and had decided to get married. We arranged everything including the airline tickets for her family to fly in from Brazil. However in the last year of our relationship she gradually became more suspicious of ...
A. 27 July 2007: Oops! Something I missed. Like other posters, maybe you can believe that she has some doubts. We can believe this about HER. But, can we believe HER PARENTS? Where would they get their information from? From her. But, they didn't take it with ... (read in full...)
He said hes not over his ex so we broke up, what should I do ?
Q. Hi Everyone - I was in a relationship with a guy for a month he had been chasing me for 4 months but i wasnt sure as didnt think a guy could like me that much....!! We started seeing each other and would make sure to meet me 2 or 3 times a week and ...
A. 27 July 2007: I want to be careful with this one. I know our advice is taken seriously, and I would hate to make mistakes with any agony nieces or nephews.
I'm not sure if I should believe he wasn't over his ex, since he was so strong about chasing you.
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Hes cheating with me, but wants to wait for his relationship to end naturally, How can I feel more at ease about this ??
Q. About three months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up, and a man that I had known and loved for five years (but never pursued it or said anything to anyone as he is attached and 18 years older) kissed me. Since then we have been seeing each othe...
A. 27 July 2007: I am fully with Beckto. This is a lot of BS. If he were that caring about anyone's feelings, he wouldn't be hurting his wife's, or yours; he'd be faithful to one woman, and one woman alone.
So, he loved you and cared for you for five years, b... (read in full...)
She believed I was having an affair and we split.. I am devastated! Any advice?
Q. We were together and in love for 5 years and had decided to get married. We arranged everything including the airline tickets for her family to fly in from Brazil. However in the last year of our relationship she gradually became more suspicious of ...
A. 27 July 2007: To me, she was fine with you for as long as there was no marriage. She doesn't want to marry you, and there's nothing yo can do about this. You should move on.
You know, the scratch thing reminds me of a joke. A woman was always accusing... (read in full...)
I want to still be friends, but i don't know how to approach it.
Q. Hi all, so I have broken up with my boyfriend for just about 2-3 weeks. Although I still miss him at times and or wish maybe we did something different, I am trying to move on. However, we both kind of hang around the same group of friends so we h...
A. 27 July 2007: First of all, be very clear whether you want a friendship with him or not. I guess the best test of wanting to be his friend is, What would you feel if he got involved with a different girl? Friendship and love are different and you must know what ... (read in full...)
I really just want things back how they were before, and really miss her, if I'm honest.
Q. I have a bit of a problem, I'd really like your help with. Basically, I've just turned 18, but am quite immature (I suppose) for my age. Anyway, I work with this 15 year old girl, and we got on really well ever since I met her. She liked me (i...
A. 27 July 2007: Mark,
When a woman tells you you ruined your chance, it's usually true. I think you're doomed. She gave you her attention for one month, and got nothing in return. You didn't virtually reject her; you rejected her, plainly. So, why would sh... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed that my boyfriend is a year younger than me
Q. i really like the guy i am involved with i have a great time with him and i love him but he's a year yonger and i don't know why i just fell inmbaressed so i won't tell my friends and i don't know if i really like him cuz i feel imbareassed to tell ...
A. 27 July 2007: A year is nothing. Many women are involved with men who are their seniors for many more years and they don't worry.
Maybe there's another reason why you're embarrassed?... (read in full...)
I walked out of his home two weeks ago after he said he didn't want a dead relationship and he hasn't made any contact... do I ring him???
Q. I believe my relationship of 8 years is over. The past 2 years haven't been too good for either of us due to my belief that he was seeing someone else. I'm sure he had a fling but he made a lot of effort to keep us together. Alas my trust was not as ...
A. 27 July 2007: If you can get yourself to trust the man, and you won't go back to more of the same, do ring him.
He must love you, but he won't take you back unless there's a change. Would you take him back if you feared he would walk out of your home? So, tal... (read in full...)
Because of her past, i'm insecure.
Q. I've been seeing a girl for 2 years now and my friends found out that she dated a guy in our year at school (he was a bit of a loner at school) and they made fun of me.... I don't like to think of her and him, especialy as she says they didn't h...
A. 27 July 2007: I haven't. However, I can tell you this much: leave the past in the past. She was with these guys when she didn't even know you. You can't complain.
If you were not that much to look at, you wouldn't have a girlfriend. There are handsome... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him back after breaking the trust more than once?
Q. My boyfriend just recently found out that I was still communicating with an ex I dated years ago. There is nothing between us but I promised not to keep contact with him more than once and this was the final straw. My boyfriend says he can't trust ...
A. 27 July 2007: This is a tough one. Trust lost is very difficult to restore. Another agony aunt suggested this link:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2004257_build-trust-relationship.html
I hope this will help you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a fetish of another guy eating out her bush while I watch.
Q. My girlfriend has a fetish of another guy eating out her bush while I watch. She wants me to go down on her friend while she watches. I don't mind watching another guy going down on my girl but the question I have is should I let one of my friends ...
A. 27 July 2007: Ditto, ditto and ditto. DJ8433 has it right.
... (read in full...)
I've been hurt so many times, I'm having trouble trusting my new beau
Q. I'm scared! i've been single for 4.5 years now, I've had flings and dates etc nothing more than a few weeks. My last boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant. I took it very badly at the time the break up was slow and ...
A. 27 July 2007: There is no way to guarantee that a man you come across will be a good man. But, there isn't any guarantee, either, that every man will be bad to you.
What your boyfriend did, which was awful, has absolutely nothing to do with what this new man ... (read in full...)
Are girls only interested in a man with money?
Q. are there people out who find it as hard as i do to understand what ladies really want? coz it seems very clear to me that all that girls consider in relationships is money.. unfortunately i dont seem to be that lucky coz am still a university ...
A. 27 July 2007: Yep, I think it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say many of us find it very hard to understand women..
Don't worry about the money. You'll find someone who will worry about the value of things, not their price.... (read in full...)
My fiancee asked me to move out saying she needed space
Q. I am 47 I have a 27 year old woman who I was engaged too and living with til a week ago than I was told to stay away she needed space. What does one do when a woman needs space and you are what seems hopelessly in love with her. Do you move on? sit ...
A. 26 July 2007: Do that. If you understand with your mind what is going on, and let your heart follow, eventually the pain will go. Either because you stop hurting, or because she will come back to you.
I'm with you.... (read in full...)
Should I send my ex a birthday card?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend 15 months ago. He was the love of my life. We slept together twice after we broke up. He then met someone else in Jan and she moved into his house for four months. They split up after she began going through his ...
A. 26 July 2007: I know he's not that bad. And you're good, too.
I don't think it's a good idea to send him a card. He is trying to move on, and so should you. He obviously had good feelings for you all the time, but those feelings are gone, and it would no... (read in full...)
My fiancee asked me to move out saying she needed space
Q. I am 47 I have a 27 year old woman who I was engaged too and living with til a week ago than I was told to stay away she needed space. What does one do when a woman needs space and you are what seems hopelessly in love with her. Do you move on? sit ...
A. 26 July 2007: It seems to me that the relationship was not working for her. The age gap is significant, and I think you're in too different stages of life to be a good match.
A person I respect very much said once that love isn't something you take from peo... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 26 July 2007: It seems to me she's feeling bad for the breakup. She was in this relationship for two years, also. Since you were seeing each other only once every seven weeks, and she kept it, obviously she was committed to you and to the relationship. Maybe ... (read in full...)
Have i done the right thing?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last six months on a free relationship basis. Since the beginning he told me he didn't want a serious relationship. I thought I could handle it, but when he didn't call for a week or so and then he suddenly ...
A. 26 July 2007: Maybe he would change his mind, but you can't be sure of that.
I know how it feels to ask someone to give you all or nothing. You run the risk of ending up with nothing. But, if you can't bear the situation anymore, there's no option.
Yes, he... (read in full...)
We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?
Q. I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer ...
A. 26 July 2007: Yes, certainty is painful but at least gives you a clear sense of direction. This is solid ground on which you will build.
In truth, only if it's so evident can you tell whether someone fancies you or not. So, this is not your mistake. You didn... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now
Q. hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot ...
A. 25 July 2007: You take care, too. I wish you and your girl the best in this world. You know, a partner you can trust, despite what you see as failures, is one of the best things in life.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 25 July 2007: I'm happy for you. You managed.... (read in full...)
My male friend flirts with me even though he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi im in a sticky situation here this is my problem. there's a boy in my class he has a girlfriend i really get on with him like mates but i always see him looking at me and flirting with me, my friends tease me when he comes and sits near ...
A. 25 July 2007: No, I don't think he has any feelings for you. He just wants to see how far he gets. Don't let him. If he has a girlfriend, throw that into his face.... (read in full...)
I think I have feelings for my best friend but I don't want to tell him incase he doesn't feel the same
Q. My best friend (of 2 years) and I have been talking for a long while about his past relationships and I have decided that I dont think anyone would be good enough for him. Im not sure why, I would be happy for him if he got another partner as he ...
A. 25 July 2007: If you value the friendship so much, to the point of not wanting to lose it, I suggest you don't say anything. But, what if he fancies you? I think you should maintain the friendship and maybe make it notch better. If he responds, with time you ... (read in full...)
He told me I wasn't giving him oral properly and I felt bad; even though he's far too rough with clitoris, I don't want him to feel bad like I did
Q. Hi guys. Help me out a bit please. When my boyfriend plays with me, he sometimes does it too rough on my clit or too much on the reeeeally sensitive bit of my clit. I like it when he plays with me and don't want to just do sometig else so that he ...
A. 25 July 2007: I'm with Stanley Cup.... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 25 July 2007: Andy, I didn't mean to be hurtful. I know you're not the problem. I was trying to tell you that, if she was not willing to do that, then there was food for your thought. I know you have tried. You're a good man.... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: Andy, with the news you give, I have some more comments to make.
You know, personally I think that three hours would not be that heavy a burden to bear if she were really interested. Rather than the physical distance, I think you're in differen... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: Andy00, I was among those who recommended you to stay away from her. So, I feel responsible for what you're going through now, and I think it's only correct that I come back and say a few things to you.
You know the phrase "I've been there". ... (read in full...)
We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?
Q. I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer ...
A. 24 July 2007: Oblivia, I very much understand and share your fear of having done something to scare him off, and I also understand that you want to understand whether there was something you did wrong, et cetera. I've been there myself and know exactly what you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now
Q. hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot ...
A. 24 July 2007: There is no way out of such a promise. However, I think the possible outcomes can be:
1) She finds out she doesn't really want to be with you, and she walks away.
2) You do work something out.
3) You find you don't really want to be with h... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now
Q. hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot ...
A. 24 July 2007: The Webster's Dictionary defines a fling as "a casual and brief love affair".
I don't think her many flings make her a slut. If she is committed to you, well, that's what counts.
You should not think about her previous relationships. ... (read in full...)
We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?
Q. I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer ...
A. 24 July 2007: I don't think loving him is an overreaction. The short time you knew each other, the time away from each other, the distance, all that means nothing; the only important thing is that you fell for him.
I'm afraid this is not what you want to ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 20 July 2007: The civilized peace you mention is worth in itself and I would go for it. After all, you had a love relationship. Sometimes problems like the one you had are good, in a way, because they expose what is not working well, and, with the right ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: All right, Butterflyfly. We don't know when you'll find the right guy, but I hope you do find him. I hope we've helped you.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: I'm with you, Butterflyfly. Only he who has never been through the horrible experience of finding out someone is cheating can disagree with the reason for the testing.
I think you're doing things the right way: you are giving him an option. ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: Well, with the information you give, it's obvious he was not just curious about knowin who his mistery admirer is. I'm happy to see that you and I are in the same wavelength, but now I want to add something. I'm with you, not in the test itself,... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: I agree that you shouldn't play this games. However, I also think there is a reason for you to. If he constantly says he loves you and you found reason not to believe him, there is a problem here.
I also think he should not go with this game, le... (read in full...)
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