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writes: OPEN TO ALL AGONY AUNTIES.i had a girl i had held as a friend for over 6 years coz we had gone thru the same primary school. This girl is remarkably well behaved but has some problems arising from the unstable marriage her parents have had since she was a kid. Feeling we had known each other for too long, i decided to ask her for a more intimate relationship. To my surprise she said that our friendship was already too strong to be interupted by any intimate feelings. Did she really mean what she said or it was a polite way of rejecting my advances Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 July 2007):
I cannot agree more with Frank. This is very clear.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (28 July 2007):
It was a nice way to reject you. She is not attracted to you enough to have sex with you. I think part of the problem is that you "asked" her, instead of planning an evening out, and making a pass (letting it happen, just happen on its own).
Being just friends for 6 years was too long to wait.
-FBK
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