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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend almost 40, gets hard and doesn't cum. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 40 and gets hard n lasts a long time Is it normal for him to not cum? He does once and then gets hard again two or three times. I wonder if I'm doing something wrong that he doesn't cum... (46 words)

Sloppy seconds? Or does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here is a tricky situation, Me and my boyfriend split up due to me resenting him for something that he did at the start of our relationship. It led to me being resentful. I dumped him. Then this girl from work came on the scene, he had talked about her in our relations... (218 words)

Boyfriend wants me to sell my house and move with him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for nearly 4 years. Before i met him, i started building a house and after a few delays it was finished 2 years ago. I have lived there since but he has remained living at home. We are on the verge of breaking up because we can't get past this issue.... (493 words)

The mother of my boyfriend's son doesn't like me getting close to her son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who has a 3 year old son to someone else,his sons mother thinks im getting too close to their son.im not sure what to do my boyfriends sons mother has a boyfriend is hardly involved at all is this healthy??and what should i do continue being involved with his ... (56 words)

My boyfriend has been nothing but a model b/f but I want to breakup with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a sort of long distance relationship with a someone for over 2 years now. (It's sort of long distance because we're near each other in the holidays but we go to different unis). Anyway he's this great guy, and my best friend, and indeed he was my best friend for ... (391 words)

How can I be better eye candy without looking tarty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't think I am girlfriend material! Or I just repell boys I have no idea But I just don't attract anyone and if I fancy someone it just never works out Can I have some tips on how to be better eye candy without looking tarty? What do boys want from a girl ?... (62 words)

Mixed signals or simply uninterested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been flirting with this boy for almost a month. I definitely like him but he's the most confusing guy I've ever met. First of all, he texts me first 90% of the time, asks me out, texts me at 4 AM to check if I'm all right (I was pretty drunk), walks home with me every si... (318 words)

Could this really be love at first sight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - For starters I have been single for about a year now... my best friend joined a online dating website fore gits and shiggles. well she found a wonderful guy and they have been together for quite some time.. i got bored about a month ago and thought why not.I signed up and of ... (276 words)

I thought I'd finally met a great guy; now I'm not so sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I met this guy on a chatline, and he we texted and then he called me and told me that he would provide for me,love me,care for me, and would want to eventually marry me but he works as a tow truck driver. whenever i text him he always tells me that he is busy and he seems ... (206 words)

Backed away while he's healing; worried he won't want to try again when he's better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating someone for just under 3 months then he developed depression from witnessing a traumatic event. I also identified in the short time of dating he can be paranoid and i suspected trust issues undealt with. He had a girlfriend in past cheated. With his depressi... (373 words)

Ran into my ex, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I ran into my Ex at the gym. We both smiled and waved, then he came over and talked to me. I didn't expect that. We tried to be friends and I just found it too hard and eventually I told him I couldn't have him in my life becuase it was too hard for me. It's now been over 1 ... (166 words)

I have feelings for my gay male friend. How do I control them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I have a gay friend who over the years we have got to know each other really well. I love his outlook and approach to life, his confidence; he is an interesting and intelligent person to be with and not to mention he has a great body. From the beginning I knew he is 100% gay ... (201 words)

Why did he say that he was interested in my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Does he want to get to know me better? I basically asked this guy if he was "interested" in me. After I thought he was flirting with me. I think he was a little surprised by me asking such a blunt question. He smiled and at first asked what I meant but went on to answer. ... (127 words)

I went through a divorce and want to change my surname but don't want to go back to my family name either!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a really difficult decision to make pretty soon regarding changing my surname and I need some help!! I am now 40 (got divorced last year) after 19 years of marriage. I don't have children. When I married I took my husbands surname. So far since being divorced I... (280 words)

Where are some interesting places I can go to meet people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Where are some interesting places I can go alone to meet new people? Most of my current friends are just like the typical people around my age. They are all happy to go to a pub/club and get wasted every weekend. This isn't really my kind of thing though. I do go to the ... (175 words)

So we were kissing for ages on our date and now he's not the same as he was before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20, a virgin, I've never had a boyfriend, I'm quite inexperienced with guys, I have only dated 2 in the past. So I met this guy at my uni, we both live near campus. We had been talking for a while on WhatsApp, flirting, getting to know each other etc. He asked to see me ... (559 words)

My friends say he's not good enough for me. Am I just blinded by my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently found out that the guy I've been seeing for about 3 months now was flirting/chatting up a bunch of girls (including 2 of my friends) up until about a month ago. i confronted him about it and he seemed really remorseful; i believed him when he said he had already ... (298 words)

Is it a bad idea to apologize to an ex girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey,i am debating contacting a ex girlfriend just to apologise for my behaviour. My concern tho is i don't want her to think I'm trying become friends with her again or re enter her life,that is not my goal,only apologising.no hidden motives. i never see her in person (hav... (128 words)

My ex FWB and I still flirt but now he thinks his g/f is pregnant. I want to help but its painful for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A few months ago me and a friend ended up admitting we really liked eachother and had a few intimate encounters. However we agreed that due to the fact we are in a band together it would be better if we didn't make it anything serious and he also told me he was scared about ... (227 words)

Why has my libido suddenly dropped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 26 yrs old and my libido has suddenly dropped. I had a very good sex life before and now am worried what could be the problem. please help. ... (31 words)

I'm a catch! Why aren't men approaching me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 23 years old and to date I have no had my first boyfriend,my first serious relationship..I'm a hopeless romantic,I want to love,want to be loved..I don't know why men aren't approaching me tho..so here's the thing I quite homely person,and I don't mean to sound shallow ... (168 words)

Why is it online men in their 50's only want young women?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been online dating + looking at online personals and I cannot believe how much most men online suck about age. I will be 25 in a couple of months + was shocked to see that there are tons of men in their 50s who specify they want women 18-25! I mean I knew that a lot of ... (328 words)

Should I take off 2 months to be with my LDR husband or not and make him wake up and realize he needs to end the distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dear cupids, I am in a long-distance marriage. In the past 2 years I've managed to take a few months off my job in order to fly abroad and be with my husband- i didn't get paid during those months off, but I got to spend time with him which was priceless. This year, I am ... (216 words)

My parents are defending my sister after she took my things without even asking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and still living with my parents and youngest sister while I save up for a house deposit. My other sister is a year younger than me and has just moved into a rented flat with her boyfriend. They both came to visit us today and she said she thought she had left some ... (302 words)

I feel my best friend is being controlled by her boyfriend and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day I got into a little spat with my best friend who is my ex. we went out for about 7 months and ever since have been really close and we call each other super best friends or best friends plus 1. Anyways I haven't been able to see her that much since she started ... (1514 words)

My boyfriend is an outright gawker of other women and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone! My BF of 3 yrs (living together for 2) has a problem with gawking at women even when i'm right there! (I mean full out gawking not even just staring!) This drives me nuts because I think it is SO disrespectful!! I have men stare at me like that when they are wi... (376 words)

Do I ask for a second date? Or wait for her to ask me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl on a dating website, we have lots in common and we have the same sense of humour. I went on a date with her last weekend and it went really well, there was no awkwardness or silences and the conversation flowed. She is absolutely stunning and has the most ... (182 words)

Can a man have sex and cum if he's not even enjoying it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for the guys; is it possible for a guy to NOT want to have sex with somebody, but then go ahead and do so, and still cum, even if he's not enjoying it? My bf always says he's not into one nighters, but he told me that whilst drunk, he had one with a ... (325 words)

He said he'll start seeing me again if I'll do a threesome

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - From the beginning he was already involved with this older lady. And there was one more other girl staying at his place for a week just to travel around. And there was me. So it was more of a friends with benefit thing. And I know it was immature or whatever but I saw other ... (559 words)

My wife's continous chatting with x husband is killing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age - My wife of one year ( my second and her third marriage ) continues to communcicate with her x husband whom she left. He has not moved on and still loves her and seems to me to be controlling with narisistic behavior via email,skype etc. She responds to his notes in a friendly ... (228 words)

I want a man who doesn't cheat or look at pornography. Does he exist?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I want a man like this does this even exist? Basically i'm after a man who does not engage in any kind of cheating at all (glances at swimsuit pics mildly acceptable.) but no porn, no talking dirty to others, little female friends, no strip clubs. No talk of attractive ... (98 words)

Why did he break up with me? I don't understand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in love with a guy who has all the character of being a flirty one. He always wanted to go out with me but it wouldnt work out. He ask about my likes and dislikes to my friend. After 3 months he said that lets break up. I asked him why he said that he wants me to be a ... (209 words)

I have trust issues with my BF after he sexted his ex on Facebook

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all! i have a question about my partner. It's been a rocky road for us but he moved in in november 2012. A week after i discovered messages to his ex lovers, not one but a few, which angered and hurt me immensely. He reminisced about their sex with them but also slagged ... (266 words)

On off ex boyfriend won't stop contacting me even when I've told him to stop. There's another woman in the picture. What's he playing at?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i was in a relationship with this guy. at first things were okay.. then we started having fights because of various reasons. i had also been talking to my ex - just talking btw... could that have also messed the situation up? ( because he kinda became furious when he came to ... (471 words)

Does anyone else have to pay board to their parents?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just a quick question! I am 20 years old, and have just moved back home. My parents have asked me to contribute $100 a week, for rent/bills/food. I work full-time, making about $600 (aus) a week. I also have my phone bill to pay, as well as small installments for my car,... (99 words)

When to proceed and when to abandon.. (dating)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Sometimes you go on a date...and there is an initial exchange of messages after, saying 'blah blah, that was fun' ...then a second date isn't scheduled. I'm thinking there are either two reasons a) both parties aren't bothered b) both parties are too proud to ask c) one party... (115 words)

Boyfriend drunk said "you are too good to me" What did he mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went drinking with my boyfriend (of nearly 2 months) and his friends. He got drunk and I had to take care of him and get him home safe and tuck him in bed. Before he passed out he said "You are too good to me. You know what that means?" I said "what do you mean" and he said ... (133 words)

Husband texting ex and making comments about me that are leaving me feeling very insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I heard my now husband tell a friend of his that I was not much to look at but I make him happy. It killed me inside. I asked him about and basically said I took it out of context and has since made me feel like a beautiful princess and we have since gotten married. We live ... (247 words)

We both broke up with our partners but I don't know where I stand with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi please tell me what I should do I met this guy K recently and we had great chemistry. Unfortunately he is moving out of the country and we were both attached! We had a great few days together (no sex) but we felt the connection and talked a lot. Then we never meet for 2... (536 words)

It's a secret, he doesn't want the baby momma to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a single divorced mother of four kids. I work a full time job, raise my four kids on my own. Along with that I take online college course. I try so hard to do the best I can to take care of my kids and along with everything else going on. I don't see how I do it. I've been ... (122 words)

Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and it is causing argument... (157 words)

Should I Risk telling my friend my true feelings for her, or play it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have this friend I've known all my life. But we've only become really close this last year or so. I'm afraid I'm developing deeper feelings for her. and she isnt making it easy! She says lots of little compliments,like say I'm cute and stuff. She'll send me text out... (266 words)

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer interested in me, what should I do?.... (60 words)

Sometimes I just don't understand why my boyfriend only seems to give me 5% of his attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I just don't understand why my boyfriend only seems to give me 5% attention ? I see a bunch of couples that are our friends and they seem to have a cute relationship, they actually touch and kiss one another more than maybe once a day or when the other person is ... (128 words)

He didn't tell me I was his stop gap live in lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We lived together for about 7 months. He had an old friend. He slept with her once, if he's not lying, and she got pregnant. Then she left to her country which is Russia. He's divorced 33 year old guy and he always wanted a baby but didnt grt one in the last marriage. I don't ... (340 words)

What can our recurring dreams mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and both us have been having reacquiring nightmares. His is that i leave him for someone else and mine is that i fall in a hole and he sees me fall and says he is going ot help me get out but instead goes and gets something ... (71 words)

Everything else is great. So why does he have to masturbate so often? It's the why I can't understand.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All! I am a woman in my late 40s, in a relationship with a man my age. We're 5 yrs in. Im a widow 6 yrs, 3 grown children, 6 grandchildren -- Pisces. He's a Leo. 2 grown children, diff mothers, always paid child support. But he enjoys lots of toys, the perpetual ... (822 words)

I can't provide the storybook life she wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey folks just wondering what everything thinks. myself and the other half have been together for four years and have spoken abt house, marrage etc. Everything is great but she is always trying to change the type of person i am and traites i.e she wants me to communicate ... (205 words)

What would be good things to talk about to get to know this foreign student while still helping him with his English?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Lol _ I just started meeting with this foreign student in my college to help him with his English (part of this “conversation/language partners” program, or something like that). Basically, I meet with him once a week for an hour just to converse in English. I’m fluent in his ... (111 words)

I assume he is a swinger!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Given that I am not too familiar with Twitter, is it possible to accidentally "follow" someone? I ask because I noticed that a guy I like is following a swingers club. It's only the one, and all the other stuff is famous people, rock bands, etc. would you read anything into ... (59 words)

I just really wish I knew if he really likes me or if I'm just being used.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy, we work together and know each other for about two years. All we are right now is friends. About six months ago we started to have sex and he doesn't want anyone to know because its no ones business. Well we still do and we text each other everyday and ... (144 words)