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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I know he's into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i am a single mum to a daughter who is 4 i have been single ever since i often get told i am good looking but have been single so long my confidence has gone there is a man i like but as i am a bit rusty what are some signs that he is interested in me things he say ... (69 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend care that his brother is trying to get with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 16 months now... we've overcome a lot of stuff, and we are doing better. But through out the relationship, his brother has flirted with me on several occasions, even tried to gett me in his bed at one point. I have down flat refused ... (176 words)

Is my mother's anger reasonable and normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Now before I ask this question I know there will be a lot of people out there ready to jump in and say its just you or that's what parents do but I'm looking for some real advice. Me and my mom have always had a good relationship and seem to work well together howev... (381 words)

I know she likes me but thinks I'm too young. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with an independent, insecure, stubborn, easily depressed an older girl. She is older than me by almost 3 years. I am 19, she is 21. I know she likes me, but she is very insecure because I am young, and she says she wants to best friends with me forever and ever. ... (77 words)

His mother is terminally ill, what is the right thing for me to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy at the beginning of November 2012. We hit it off right off the bat, and we both agreed that it felt like we have known each other forever. Holidays were coming up and so was his mothers lung cancer progression. He started to become a little distant ... (206 words)

He is nearly perfect, except... I don't desire him sexually!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i met the perfect man while working as a barlady about 4 years ago. i already had a son and he accepted him as his own even before meeting him! after a few month i fell pregnant with his daughter and then everything started going wrong... not with him but with me. long story ... (244 words)

I'm 20, I'm a virgin, and I'm ALWAYS horny. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old, I'm a virgin and I'm horny ALL THE TIME. This only became recent, I have been masturbating for a few years now, maybe 2-3 times a week, sometimes I'd go weeks without doing anything. But at the beginning of December, I was seeing a guy and things got rath... (392 words)

I'm trying one last time with my ex but I really miss the man I gave up! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently go back with my ex to give our relationship one last try . We were together 10 years and 8 months ago I walked out and met someone else. I decided to give it another go with my ex as I felt like If i didnt give it one last try then I would always regret that I didnt. ... (295 words)

My ex is convinced we are meant to be and won't leave me alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is convinced we are meant to be and won't leave me alone.I've blocked his numbers on my phone as he was ringing 30 times a day, and he's been blocked on facebook for ages but always keeps asking to be unblocked. He let himself into my flat today when I was asleep. He said ... (176 words)

How should I deal with my mother-in-law's nonsense drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - (long text, but it's so ridiculous it's actually easy to read -_- ) She liked me since we first met. She even called me in the middle of the day just to say she loved me but out of the sudden she started to act crazy! She got very possessive with my boyfriend (he is 30 year... (585 words)

I don't know how to treat my ex-best-friend since he's found a girlfriend and everything changed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. One of my guy friends got a girlfriend last year, and I was like okay cool. Then he starts talking to me less and less, and I was like wtf why isn't he talking to me we talk all the time. I guess i started getting to me, because I totally changed my attitude around them. ... (230 words)

How can I get through to my wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I get through to my wife ? For 6 or 7 years now I've been trying to get her to talk to me and discuss many things including our virtually non existent sex life. She's refused. She seems to want to live in some odd scenario which is more like friends. We don't fight. ... (178 words)

Does he love me for me or for my future career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my mid 20s and my boyfriend is in his early 40s. He is retired but i am student.he spends most of his free time with me and understands all my academic requirements.i am on my senior year college and i plan on going to medical school.i told him my plan and he is willing ... (183 words)

Do I give my ex a new chance or decide that it's a new year, time for new experiences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Very brief. I was with my ex for a year and 3 months (on top of that 6months seeing eachother) so lets say nearly two years. We have been split for a year and three months. He was and is my first love, he saved me from a very bad phrase in my life and i loved him so unconditi... (479 words)

My mother doesn't like my choice. How do I deal with this situation? I am extremely stressed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I find myself in a very stressful situation. I habve found the guy of my dreams. He is caring, respectful, and loves me to death. We've talked about a future together and what not. But the thing is that my mom doesnt exactly aprove. She thinks he's not good enough for me. And ... (208 words)

Please share your thoughts on my situation with sex with my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband says that he mentally tries to delay his own orgasm and I wish he wouldn't because my body can't take it. Pleasuring him goes on so long that I dread sex. Rather than delaying his orgasm LESS he gives me suggestions on how I could last longer. I don't want to last ... (385 words)

I'm abstaining from alcohol for my health, but my family are making unhelpful comments!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - In September off 2011, I had way too much to drink. I was lucky I did not die from alcohol poisoning. After that day, I have not drank any alcoholic bevages. The problem is my sister-in-law and her family. They keep on trying to get me to drink beer. They keep on making c... (90 words)

Was his flirting a trick? Is he actually trying to get me out of a job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this job over two months, this colleague is now more of a friend to me he is a senior. He is always helpful and we do get along but I am worried what his agenda is now. We do have a flirty relationship but professional one too. BUT- we co-work cases so we do e... (180 words)

Have I ruined my new relationship by being insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy that I've been seeing for three months has just told me that he thinks we shouldn't spend so much time together. We see each other nearly everyday at the gym.. And then afterwards and also at the weekends. He says that he thinks I need to meet my friends more and do ... (158 words)

I still really love and care for my B/f, but I am constantly changing my mind about whether I want to be with him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years. In that time, I have often felt like he takes me for granted and puts his friends first but I have always stuck it out because I loved him and didn't want to give up on the relationship. However, in the last two months I ... (423 words)

Could I catch something from being fingered, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - last night i got fingered for the first time, i didnt really care about it at the time. but now it kind of hurts and im worried that his fingers were dirty or something. would i catch something and what should i do?... (43 words)

My LDR BF was attacked and is still recovering. I want to talk to him but can't. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and happy new year. A very unfortunate thing happened to my boyfriend when he went back to his country. He's from south africa and he came to visit me. We stay in touch mostly through social networks. Two weeks ago, when i was closing from work, i received a call fro... (156 words)

Is she genuinely interested in me or desperate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am writing this letter to seek your valuable advise. There is this woman working in the same building as me but in a different office. When she joined her office, she was introduced to me by the HR who is common to both of us. It has been almost two years that I have kno... (474 words)

How much porn use is too much?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

1 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - How much porn use is too much? I am a 19 year old virgin and am single. I have only one ex where I did not use any porn for most of the relationship until the end when we broke up over distance issues (college). It's been about 5 months since our breakup. We had done everyth... (180 words)

Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any official title. Anyway... (362 words)

A three way kiss with a guy and a girl and I has made my BF break up with me, I think. Should I get in touch with my now ex to talk things over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm 16 and I've been in my first relationship with a boy ever since November. Recently I have been freaking out a bit that it has been getting very intense and he really likes me and in the back of my mind I have been panicking and asking myself what I really wa... (243 words)

My Cheating Boyfriend won't end his "affair" but I can't find the strength to leave him? How do I find the strength? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 years old and have been dealing with a major issue in my relationship with my son's father. I have been with him for 6 years and our son is 2 years old. A little over a month ago I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. He is 29 and has been sleeping with an 18 y... (614 words)

Am I wasting my time? She's smart, cute and a professor. She's over me, but I'm still interested. Shall I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey folks, For some reason I can't stop thinking about a girl I used to date. She's a professor, intelligent, gorgeous, sweet, funny, creative. The whole package. We met at a weird time in our lives as we had both semi recently gotten out of long term relationships and sh... (256 words)

Is it time? Should I Tell My Friend I Want To Be With Him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts can you guys help me!! I’m a 21 year old young lady and I want to be with this guy. He's been my friend since high school ( 4 years ) we get alone great! We are very attracted to each other. We've had sex before, when we first met we were talking/dating but when he want... (416 words)

How do I stop being so needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up with my ex of 7 and a half years for four months. I had been thinking about it for a few months before - we barely had sex anymore and he was a bit controlling I now realise. I started seeing someone about one month after we broke up. I had known this g... (207 words)

Can I still get her back? Am I stupid to want her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Three months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man (saying stuff like "I'm thinking about you too", they had obviously been meeting), which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me and didn't want me to leave he... (287 words)

We feel like we are playing with fire and we're trapped in an emotional stalemate. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

1 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've fallen hard for a co-worker. I'm married, and she has a long term boyfriend. When I started the job we both noticed each other but neither of us were looking for anything more. I realised the crush I had on her was stronger than I had intended several weeks ago, we ma... (592 words)