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writes:I met this girl on a dating website, we have lots in common and we have the same sense of humour. I went on a date with her last weekend and it went really well, there was no awkwardness or silences and the conversation flowed. She is absolutely stunning and has the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I was going to see her again yesterday but she had to cancel as had to sort out a few things. We have been txting everyday and get on well. Do I ask her on a second date, or wait for her to ask me? I don't want muck it up and come on too strong, but at the same time not take too long so she thinks I'm not interested. If we go on a second date, do I make a move? How many dates do you need before you become an item? And how do I know if she is interested or not?...I have been single for a year and need some help :) Thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2013): you could text her to meet up again a couple of days after and the kiss depends on the two people and how the date went. And if you have a second date and its gone well too then you could do it on your second date if you get the right moment and don't worry about it because it will feel right and just go with it. And when it comes to being an item then you should just see how it goes because there is not a certain amount of
time and usually you get to each other better and if you like eachother continue going on more dayes and if theres chemistry and a spark then it will feel right to ask her.
Hope this helps.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): Thanks for the advice. "Straight to the truth" Thanks for your reply, she has asked to meet up this weekend so I guess thats a good sign :)
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female
reader, oldbag +, writes (27 January 2013):
 Hi
First,take a deep breath and relax
Yes, ask her for a 2nd date then SLOWLY take it from there - or not - depends how she responds.
Good luck
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (27 January 2013):
Every girl is different so it is hard to say how many date before you make a move or before you can call it a relationship. I personally wouldn't ever arrange a second date because I tend to find it puts a man off when the girl asks for a second date. I tend to see it that a man should ask the girl but thats just me. Its tough this early in a relationship lol. I would say maybe send he a message saying you had a great time the other day and wondered when she might be free to meet up again and just see what she says. If she says things are really busy at the moment and she'll get back to you then leave it at that and wait for her to get back to you but if she arranges a date with you then great news :) When it comes to making a move I tend to find that you just know when the moment is right, if it feels right to move in for a kiss then go for it but if it feels like early days then wait. In a dating situation I tend to find that I like to wait a few dates until I know the person a little better and feel comfortable in their company.Also you should be able to tell if she is interested or not mainly because if a girl isn't interested then it will be very obvious
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