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anonymous
writes:Hi I am 23 years old and to date I have no had my first boyfriend,my first serious relationship..I'm a hopeless romantic,I want to love,want to be loved..I don't know why men aren't approaching me tho..so here's the thing I quite homely person,and I don't mean to sound shallow but I'm attractive and I get a lot of compliments from women as well as men,most of the men stare but that's it..it ends there,noone makes the move,the ones who do I don't really like them..I'v come to that point where I'm envious of people in relationship and have boyfriends,some aren't even faithful..and I keep thinking to myself why am I single!I come from a wealthy family and my parents have provided me with everything,I own expensive cars,designer clothing so sometimes I think is it that the men feel they won't be able to live up to my expections?or I may be too much for them to handle?I don't know you tell me,wht do I do?why aren't they approaching?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (28 January 2013):
Some women can be intimidating to men; if they're too good looking it can make men think they aren't good looking enough for you. If you have a lot of money (or look like you do) then it can make men think you are a gold digger or too materialistic and wont be able to provide for you the way you might expect or that you'll spend all their money.
Tone it down a bit and that may help. Otherwise you may want to learn how to be a little bolder. Show men that you're interested in whatever way is comfortable for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): I used to be in this position myself - I would say I'm attractive and my parents tried to give me the world, designer clothing etc and the excuse the guys always used to use was that they were too scared to approach me due to 'fear of rejection'. I thought this sounded like a silly excuse because they didn't want to know me, but then when I toned it all down and tried to give off an approachable vibe I had success! Now since you're an attractive girl this could be the case too. Have you been going out enough to social occasions where you can meet some? Have you tried approaching them yourself? I wish you the best of luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): Darling, don't worry about love. it will come like a thief in the night.all you need to do, is to wait.
if your too rich maybe you should be visible with guys who have the same kind of life style you have. average joe can't handle girls who have much than them. its itchy and annoying to some men. unless his a gold digger. so be careful too you might find a mr. wrong.
Since you have the looks, money and almost everything. why dont you try to travel, go to paris or manhattan maybe in scotland they say men there scattered around like mushrooms.
You might find or meet someone special there. for the mean time, get busy maintaining your looks. good luck
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (27 January 2013):
Its not about the car you drive, the clothes your wear or how wealthy your family are. Its about who you are, how you act and how you treat people. It could be that you are giving off a "I am better than you" or "I am a catch and you should want to be with me" vibe or maybe you are just giving off too much of a "please date me" signal. All of these things are picked up on and will put a man off. Women who are in a relationship are always more desireable to men because they no longer give off that "please date me" vibe and so they are more comfortable and relaxed so can you imagine how they much feel if not only are you single but you are also desperately looking for love. I would suggest maybe trying dating sites to get yourself out there and in dating situations so that you start getting use to it all. Dont look at ever date as a potential serious relationship but maybe as a practice run and who knows....you might happen to stumble across Mr Right
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