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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Housework and chore trouble with my boyfriend, do I move out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have lived for a few years now and the housework situation is getting out of control. He grew up with maids and is totally incompetent. Which would be OK I guess, but he won't listen to me or try to learn. I'll try to explain to him how to do something and ... (367 words)

Has she shown subtle signs that she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have worked with this girl for a short while now, and have developed a major crush on her for more than a month now. I've never dated a coworker simply because I was never interested in one previously, (and for the record, my company does not have a policy prohibiting this). ... (444 words)

He's very good to me yet doesn't do the little things that I ask. I'm worried he's cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi to love or not to love is my question!! i'm very happy with him, when i'm with him. when i don't see his face, when i don't hear his voice, when i don't have any picture of him in-front of me, i just think that i am in a big trouble . -he is very generous , yet his... (563 words)

I think my crush hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - well, in primary school, now that i think of it, my crush really really really liked me. we don't go to the same high school now, but we kept in contact on facebook a year later, we used to talk,it would be smileys and hi's and stuff like that. now i like him then all of a ... (197 words)

Do I try to push our friendship to another level? I'm not even sure that I like him as more than a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! So I think I might have a problem... I'm 18 years old and in high school. There is this guy, he's my best friend ( and in my class) and I think I might have some feelings for him... Before summerbreak, he told me he liked me and I said I just wanted to be friends. ... (486 words)

He cheated, said it was over so why is her number still in his phone? And other women's too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy and I had been together off and on for 4 years over the phone and finally got together last year and he moved in with me. One day he asked me to marry him and of course I said yes and things were going great then about 5 months ago he cheated on me. He says he is no ... (100 words)

Would it be alright to send her a card to her work address wishing her well on her move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Since October, I have been emailing back and forth with a girl from uni who caught my attention at the beginning of the year. She's recently been through a tough break up, and basically I just want to try to be her friend for now. We practically email each other a few times a ... (173 words)

When we have a fight no matter whose fault it is, b/f switches off his cell phone till I beg for forgiveness on facebook. I can't take this!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years always switches off his mobile when we fight and make me suffer until I send him sorry msg to his Facebook account even when he started the fight and even when he's wrong He did it now too. I can't go thru this suffering again, I feel humiliated ... (67 words)

As I passed by two girls, one of them said Bow chicka wow wow. Was that directed towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm preparing to leave a classroom. No biggie, right? But, as I'm about to pack up, I see two nice girls. And, I hear one say "Bow chicka wow-wow" as she passes by me. Ever since I heard the comment, I now can't stop analysing what she means. Is it about my looks? Or, was it ... (76 words)

After finding out he lied and cheated I slept with my boyfriend's bandmate. Do I tell him before his band mate does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy back in July, he was amazing, and for me, it was instant love...not so much for him. He had been divorced for about a year..his exwife had cheated on him. Things were great for a little while, but he was obviously not ready to be in a committed relationship, and ... (1143 words)

Is there anything I can do to reduce my sex drive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a sex question. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "horny" when im around him, and when im not with him i thinkg about doing the deed with him... (127 words)

My husband's depression and withdrawal caused us to drift apart, see others. Is it just time to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My life, I know, was needlessly complicated. I understand I made some very stupid decisions in my life and I am fairly certain they contributed to the lose of the love I actually treasured to preciously. (digestion version) I met him online and we were madly inlove. We ha... (1587 words)

Should I leave my BF of 6 years for someone I've known for 2 months?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My boyfriend of 6 years recently asked if it's ok if his sister could stay with us for a few weeks until she finds a place in the city.. His sister is a model, she's a gorgeous woman and is currently working with the top fashion companies, so all her friends are mode... (209 words)

Is my friend a jerk for making this disrespectful comment about his African American lover?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This older guy who I am friends with, told me that if he ever got married in the future, he would never tell his wife that he had a sexual relationship with an African American woman because, she would look down on him and so would the entire Ukrainian community. My friend s... (365 words)

My wife told me she is attracted to her boss! I'm worried, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 14 years out of the blue while we are lying down cuddling turns to me and tells me she is attracted to someone at work. I was kind of stunned by this and didn't know what to say, then she tells me its her boss. She says she doesn't no why she feels like this cau... (97 words)

Cousin asked me to be her chief bridesmaid but the best man is my ex-boyfriend. I am very uncomfortable about this but don't want to hurt anyone. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My cousin is getting married late in the summer and she asked me to be her chief bridesmaid and i said I'd love too. Fast foward a few week later and her husband to be tells her that he wants my ex fiancé to be the best man and she said ok! I'm just really mad and upset that ... (376 words)

I asked my BF to have STD tests before we sleep together. He says he can only get results over the phone, not on paper. Can I believe him/ how can I check the results?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I have a matter about health. Me and my boyfriend are going to see each other soon, he will stay with me for 2 weeks. We have planned to sleep together this time, it will be the first time of us. And for health safety, I asked him to take a blood test (since he has h... (161 words)

Boyfriend who cheated in the past is now almost perfect, but I can't get over the trust issues.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. It's never really felt and still to this day does not feel like a real relationship to me. Previously I've always had a very close connection with bfs, we've lived together from an early stage, met each others parents, been ... (470 words)

She wants the relationship to progress slowly, but I'm not sure how much slower I can go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am very much in love with my girlfriend and being with her has been one of the best years in my life. Like all new relationships, when we first met it was all about being with each other - any minute we could steal together we would make sure we did. Likewise, the sex was ... (427 words)

Did I cheat? What did I do? Mind is messed up - what do I do if anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I'm currently in a long distance relationship (sort of - we're not wanting to call it a relationship quite yet), and it's going well. We've been talking daily since the end of October, and just after Christmas we agreed to commit to each other that we wouldn't have any othe... (231 words)

I told him some guys wanted my number and he hasn't returned my texts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met this guy on line about 4 weeks ago,I felt a attraction to him and he expressed he was attracted and interested in me and wanted to talk more and we have been flirting like mad via text more than phone. when the txts or conversation gets hot and sexual he gets to ... (201 words)

How do I stop feeling self conscious about my chest size?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm feeling a little self conscious about my chest size. I'm an A75/34AA, which is pretty flat. I always thought they'd grow a cup bigger but sadly that has been my bra size since I was 13. My boyfriend doesn't mind my chest size, but I still do and I even considered ... (90 words)

If he is getting help for his problems, would it be so bad if I took him back in a year or so?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question a few days ago, but here is an update. I knew my boyfriend of 3 years was lying to me about certain things so I got access to his email account on Friday night, then did the same thing to his facebook account. I found dozens and dozens of conversations fr... (653 words)

She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for a couple of weeks, and then ... (1231 words)

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - *I see him where he works often and he'll walk around and talk to me for an hour sometimes 2. *He'll tease me about things. *He walks me to my car, in which we talk for another 10 minutes outside. *Texts me at least every other day seeing how my day is. * Gives... (167 words)

No trust for my boyfriend anymore because he ignores anything that bothers me, and now I suspect him of cheating....what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’d like to know how you guys think I should address this situation or maybe even what I should do…im also sorry it's soo long. So When I first got into a relationship with my boyfriend we decided it would be a completely honest relationship and by that I mean if somethin... (1334 words)

I fell for her, and only talked to her to try and get her number. Then I find out she has a boyfriend, so should I try and be friends with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - We don't know each other well or at all. We have had small talks but that's just it. I fell for her looks. I have asked if I could contact her but she said she has a boyfriend. We won't be seeing each other anymore and I don't know if I should try to be friends with her the ... (120 words)

When my boyfriend has any problem, he goes to his best friend (a girl) and not me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,I'v been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years,my boyfriend has this best friend who is a girl and they have been friends since kindergarden and over the years I'v become friends with her too,we hang out together..BUT I really feel bad about one thing,when my ... (157 words)

I am sick of my B/f sneaking around behind my back to jerk off! Is it normal for men to be like that?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so anybody's advice would be excellent, especially a womans. I'm 18 and have been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1 and a half years, our sex life is average, and I'm always keen even if I don't finish. He's jerked off to internet porn during our relationship, I used to ... (508 words)

Why does my gf act like an impossible and hysterical child during arguments?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't seem to understand my girlfriends actions sometimes. We are from different countries, though I work and live in her country. We have been together for eight months, though she sort of left her previous boyfriend for me, who had cheated on her. Everything is no... (342 words)

I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only have like 3 friends which ... (213 words)

How do we deal with communication problem in our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been married for 5 years and it just now hit me that for the past 2 years we have had communication issues. For example every time i try to talk to my husband he doesnt reply to me all he says is "ok" and i tell him well give me your opinion and he says okay.. Like he ... (134 words)

What am I doing wrong? How do I go about finding a new bf this year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - So lonely, Why can't I seem to find anyone to be with? It has been 3 years since my BF and I broke up. ( he cheated on me). I have tried to get over it but am still in counseling. I am outgoing with a great personality so my friends both male and female say. Ri... (155 words)

My parents will not allow me to see my LDR without a chaperon. Are they outdated in their thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be a bit long, so bear with me... My boyfriend (age 22) and I (23) have been dating a little over a year now. I moved out when I was seventeen to go to a university some distance from my house, but I am now living with my parents since I transferred to a... (460 words)

What do I do with an ex who is just plain nasty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do with an x that is just plain nasty. We are divorced and just recently - within the year have started talking because of the children. The kids are now 26 24 and 19. Most times he is civil but tonight he just flipped out again. Over $43! We have to trav... (206 words)

Why did my boyfriend ask me if I had ever been pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is not a very long. But my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month. And a couple days ago, he asked me if I had ever been pregnant. I told him no and when I asked why he wanted to know, he said no reason. Is he just embarrassed to tell me the reason?? ... (70 words)

Why does my ex keep on trying to light the kindling in the fire that just keeps going out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Well me and my, long distance relationship keep on trying to rekindl the fire but nothing works its like she has a bf and says that she still wants to keep in tounch. So we keep on talking every couple of times a month not as much as we use to. I just don't understan what she ... (91 words)

Update on I was expecting to hear from him but haven't heard a word for 2 days

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So for all who were following my story of the guy who I was expecting to come to my house but never showed up... (original story below for anyone else) Well it appears he's just fine. I didn't contact his parents or anyone, but I noticed he changed his dating profile p... (550 words)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all... I just took a girl on a date recently. We had exchanged numbers and we had previously gotten to know more about each other before via text message, so we had common ground and things to talk about. I don’t claim to be the best looking guy but I know I have a certain... (701 words)

How do I keep from talking to much when I'm nervous around my date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

8 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I seem to talk a lot when I'm nervous. I think my new guy was a little annoyed the other night he was trying to leave but I kept talking to him. He was polite then said baby I have to go I'm so tired. I felt so silly did I blow things? I get so smitten around him I can't help ... (117 words)