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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I get back with my ex? My ex doesn't know that after we broke up I dated one of his friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up around 6 months ago because I generally felt as though he didn't make enough of an effort with me. We were together for 14 months and it was hard to break up with him because I did love him a lot. He desperately wanted us to remain friends, so we did and ... (304 words)

Three choices. But which one? Can you help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well there's 3 boys I know like me. One of them is a good friend of mine and we have good conversations and he's so lovely and he's good looking but there's not much spark and I don't really like him like that. The second guy I've got history with. Everytime it hasn't enende... (154 words)

If I confront my husband, who cheated in the past, with these texts, he'll take issue with my snooping. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - About 3 years ago I found out that my husband had been joining dating sites, and chatting and cheating on me with other women he had met on these sites. This had been going on behind my back for 5 years. I realise how good he is at keeping secrets because I had never ... (284 words)

I don't want our last two awkward meetings to be the last memories we have of each other. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my story happens on New Year’s Eve. (back ground info) I am 21 and my friend is 18. We have been neighbours for most of our lives. We were very close as children and I have great memories of being with him. but we grew apart when I was a teenager and then I moved to colle... (397 words)

Boyfriend is blowing hot and cold. If he's unhappy, why doesn't he end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a boyfriend of nearly three years, and unfortunately with money issues etc we are long distance for the moment but want to move in together when we save enough. However whenever I talk or contact my partner he seems very unhappy with me? In a text... (117 words)

Unplanned pregnancy. I'm from a strict family and don't know what to do ....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

17 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm here to get advice and not to be judged Yes me and my boyfriend are both adults and been together for 4 years. We are both working however we both live in different towns. We had sex however I took the morning after pill but I guess it didn't work. I found ... (151 words)

My ex husband doesn't love me anymore but wants us to have a child together

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have my ex-husband who told he doesnt love me anymore with no reason and now he wants us to have a second child outside a relationship and he is extremly proud. and i still love him. What do i do to get him back?... (46 words)

I like a girl who's in a relationship. How do I find out how she feels about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this girl, she has a girlfriend, but we went on a drunken night out and ended up sleeping together. We then have had a couple of times where we nearly slept together again, but both stopped it as it wasn't fair on her girlfriend. Problem is, we feel the same and have ... (159 words)

I've had sex many times with husband but still can't have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I just got married 12 days ago, and I was a virgin on my wedding night. I have had sex with my husband many times now, but not once has he made me orgasm. I have lied to him telling him I have but I am starting to get frustrated a bit. I am completely new at this and want ... (105 words)

I like him, is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I don't know what should I think so I want to ask you. In my school are boy and sometimes we have common lessons. When I walk in class he star staring at me, when I look at him he start smiling, when I ask something teacher or other boys, he look at me and answer and ... (89 words)

Is this ok to leave your partner at home and travel overseas with your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner wants to go away with his ex without me, even though they have been friends 15 years i struggle with this as his friend waited till we were in a solid committed monogamous relationship, then he behaved badly and chose to not get to know me and then takes my ... (164 words)

Ex sent me dirty pictures says its because of me that he's hard. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, my ex messaged me out of the blue saying he missed me, then he ended up sending me a dirty picture saying I'm the reason that it's well hard. I'm pretty sure he only wants one thing . Should I just ignore him or what?... (46 words)

What to do with this fake friend? Whats wrong with her now? Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, there is this friend,i am close with her since the first day of college, and we used ot see each other every day,etc. Then after 4 months lets say, we kinda got bored of each other. And she always kept on inviting me to go out with the other,etc. An di used ot invite her... (261 words)

I like this guy but he's so hard to get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advise. I am very confused. There is this guy, which I really like. I moved to London in September and I met so many guys, but this guy I like is the only guy I have liked now in England. He is so different then the other guys, by different I mean by beh... (452 words)

The girl has herpes and I dont. But we want to be together. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - How is it going. I have been hanging out with a girl lately and we want to date. She is really cute and funny and smart and I really like her. But it turnes out she was raped a few years back and wound up with genital hepes out of the deal. She was very sad to tell me this and ... (214 words)

My friends are still friends with my ex and taking her side. I feel like I'm being stabbed in the back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey dear cupid readers, first of all, some background information. I am in college, and part of a social group consisting 2 guy friends and 1 girl-friend and a few of her friends. Well this girl in our social group, I used to date her for a few months and then broke up wi... (325 words)

I feel like my bf doesn't consider me because he wont do sexual favors and forgets me on holidays what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I have a small problem that is difficult to over look. My bf doesnt ever want to go down on me. When we first got together he would say how he did it to his ex, which of course was annoying because he was just doing it to brag... we have been together 4 years and hes done it ... (504 words)

My BF blocked my Facebook since I posted and blamed on a sexy photo of an entertaining girl whom he often visits her page. Am I nothing to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. My long distance BF often visits a Facebook page of a sexy young girl working as an entertainer by showing body in bikini in sexy ways. I've known there are some sexy young girls on his page so far, they are working for a small Asian model company. But when I found ... (458 words)

3 friends, we both like the same girl and want to ask her out. How should this be handled?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - This story revolves around 3 people - a guy, a girl and myself. Lets name the guy Neil and the girl Natalie. Neil and Natalie have known each other for around 6 years and know each other very well. 2 years ago, I became friends with them. Now we are very close...but I'm ... (397 words)

My boyfriend's children are not invited to my family's events. How can I handle this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a small predicament that I could do with some help with. Myself and my fella have been together over 18 months. He has 2 kids and we all love each other to bits. My parents took a long time to accept it but they have now. The only problem is, is when a family eve... (207 words)

Why would my friends with benefits ignore me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi iv been sleeping with a guy I know for about two years now. I normally go to his on a weekend say after a night out and he'll take me home in the morning. We get on really well and have a laugh we both know its just fun and I'm happy with that.if he sees me out he would come ... (452 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to ruin my internship because I'm so tired all the time!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not really a relationship question, but about job performance (or lack thereof, in my case.) Since most of you have jobs or had one, I would really appreciate your advice on this. Right now I'm finishing up my studies at uni through an internship, working as a jou... (411 words)

Can an antibiotic prevent pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Can ampiclox prevent pregnancy... (4 words)

I'm jealous because of how much fun my b/f has with our female co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been with my boyf for 7 months, and for most of our relationship i have been really jealous of how well he gets on with this other girl. All 3 of us have the same part time job and whenever i see them talk they are always laughing together and he seems to find her ... (228 words)

I don't want to move on, I think my ex and I might have something going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay a little background on me and my ex...we dated in high school..we were 14...it only lasted about 3 months...he broke up with me cause I was too clingy. Fast forward 6 years later. We are 20. And we've been best friends since we were 13. And the water pipe in his apartment ... (577 words)

Should I let my mom know she offended me when she mentioned a diet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just a quick question, but it's been bothering me for a few days. I was out shopping with my mum, and she suggested that I have a small salad for lunch as I am getting 'chunky'. She then proceeded to tell me that I look like a size 12 (When I am in fact a size 8 au... (126 words)

I feel like I am living in the shadow of the person who made him so mistrustful

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know what to do. I feel my relationship is slipping away and I am powerless to stop it. My boyfriend and I have been together 18 months and live together. The problem is that he had a bad experience with someone who lied to him, manipulated him and tricked him out ... (491 words)

Should I leave my girlfriend because of my insecurities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been asking for advice regarding my ldr before, so this is not the firts time im posting, i tried to post a while ago but it was rejected due to lack of information, so i will try to give as much info as i can keeping it short. I have a long distance girlfriend, she is 2... (479 words)

He stopped replying to my messages what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys,,so i met this guy in our new neighbourhood and he seemed very nice! He's so cute and i began taking interest. So i friended him on facebook and we began talking but after a while,he stopped replying my inboxes! I sent like 4 to him and still..i got nothing what sho... (57 words)

My friend/college room mate is a stalker and its really starting to creep me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I recently started noticing something about my friend, strange behavior! We recently got accepted to a university and we share a dorm together. I never really noticed it about her untill we moved together. Okay so the strange behavior is that she is crazy obsessed about ... (282 words)

Two female friends caressing and snuggling: Hidden attraction or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A friend and I became close and usually exchange flirty comments, which we don't mean anything by them for jokes. (She is known to have a flirty sense of humour. She even admit that both sexes have felt attraction towards her, but she is straight) One night, I slept over at ... (313 words)

What do most people consider as porn? Would looking at nude pics classify as watching porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were constantly getting in fights about him watching porn. In the end it wasn't so much that he was watching porn that bothered me but the fact that he disrespected how I felt about it and wouldn't stop. But before that, for a long time I was so desperate to get ... (211 words)

Seeing this guy but not yet official... how do I bring it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4326 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna be long but thanks in advance for reading :) I've been seeing this guy for about 2 and a half months (wow, feels like much longer lol) and it's been such fun. I really like him, and I'm sure the feeling's mutual. Thing is, we're not quite official yet. I ... (432 words)

Am I crazy for feeling guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I crazy for feeling guilty? My husband and I are separated. Many things led up to the separation including verbal and emotional abuse, lack of trust, lack of communication, and a lot of resentment. At the very end however, I told my husband that if he moved out, we we... (182 words)

Is he talking to me out of pity, or does he want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

17 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, I have never done this before but I will try my best to describe my situation. So I met this guy about 8 years ago and we were going for an arranged marriage. We thought we weren't ready as yet so we called the idea off. Although... (573 words)