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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I risk losing my family and friends for a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my boyfiend, but my family doesn't like him, but they haven't really gotten to know him.. they just know of his family, which i admit have some bad people in it, They think i can do better, they like my ex so much better, and don't understand why i'm not with... (178 words)

He said we met at the wrong time. Then stopped talking to me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age - Hello. I need advice on my four month relationship that my Man 'out of the blue' put a stop to three weeks ago. We are both 55yrs old, both been on our own for some time but wanted a relationship again. We instantly clicked and felt right together,and blossomed how it shoul... (338 words)

My Gf has many issues, especially with her ex Bf. All this is getting me down. Is our relationship a lost cause?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girl friend is 46 has a failed marriage and three children. Two very young. One children was conceived via a relationship only based on sex only, but she fell pregnant. Then a second child with this violent man because she wanted another child. Both dads are feckless... (102 words)

No GF, I am a virgin and I failed college. My self esteem is at an all time low. How can I gain confidence?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am finding it very hard to like myself right now. I flunked out at college, I am a virgin and I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I have accomplished nothing and feel that I never will. I will be turning 22 in a few days and I don't know how to pick myself u... (110 words)

Bf cheats and lies. I'm scared that breaking up will leave a void. How do I get the courage to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me a year and a bit ago and I only recently found out. We broke up last January and got back together in May. I found out about the cheating 3 months ago after his sister had enough of his behaviour and set me straight - apparently h... (1025 words)

Should I move on and how? It's been three years since I dated anyone. Not since my last boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my first boyfriend was the love of my life and we broke up about 5 years ago. After like a year I met another guy who treated me like a queen but got too clingy so I called it off with him. I haven't dated anyone since my last boyfriend and it's been about 3 years I'... (220 words)

Why do I feel so upset all the time when I don't have the right to be unhappy?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 17, just started my A Levels and I'm really unhappy. I hate my life, I hate the repetitiveness, the work and the pressure put on me by seemingly everyone, all demanding different things. It's making me really upset all the time, and I am in a terrible mood wi... (231 words)

I'm only 20 and not trying for a baby, will the doctors still test me to see if I'm infertile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you aren't doctors, but i'm really worried i'm infertile!! Since I was 13 I've always been weight conscious, so i've stupidly done a lot of dieting on and off and they haven't been healthy ones. But where I eat next to nothing for weeks, somedays i've gone without ... (210 words)

Together for 2 yrs, and split up 4 yrs ago... Why can't I let go and stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I remember coming on this to post a question about forbidden love with an ex teacher and breaking my virginity. Well 6 years on I am back as an older, wiser 20 something about the same guy but different problem. We split mutually after two years together because the age diff... (593 words)

I like my best friends brother but she's forbidden me from seeing him! Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my best friends brother. We have liked each other for several years and we started to date for 3 monthes but then my bestfriend found out and she was angry at me for a very long time. We still like each other but i cant date him because my friend told me if i date him ... (162 words)

I like a girl at college. I feel she likes me too but it's complicated. Has she given up on men or just not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I've known for about 4 months. She is 2 years younger than me. She's in college with me. I talk to her regularly and we do share stuff with each other as well but lately i've realised that I am seriously in love with her. The thing is she's childish and whe... (256 words)

I love my BF and we see each other everyday but he never calls me at night. Am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for about 4months, I'm 18 and so is he. He was my first everything. I'm completely in Love with him, and he tells me he's in love with me. He's the best ever and he comes everyday to spend time with me. We text each other through out the ... (137 words)

I married to a gay man and I'm confused. He didn't tell me he was gay until I got him his visa. Will our marriage last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age - Hi I am 48 years old and believe that sometimes my perspective on things can be considered strange. Anyway I am married and my husband is younger then me. We meant in line 4 years ago so our relationship wasn't about sex, I had this feeling he was gay but didn't tell me until... (218 words)

GF of 6 months is blowing hot and cold. Should I be patient or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I started dating girl a six months ago. We are both in our late twenties. She had not long broken up from a serious relationship. The first 5 times or so we went out on dates was fantastic. But since then and for a couple of months she has been blowing hot and cold. A... (170 words)

When going through a very hard time, I behaved badly with my GF. Have I blown it? Will she come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Everybody, I'm really at a loss here so I'm needing some honest, and perhaps some brutal advice. I met my girlfriend in February of last year. We pretty much fell for each other immediately! I really, really love this girl! I truly believe she is the love of my li... (403 words)

Is it possible for someone in the medical profession to have a satisfying sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Is it possible for someone in the medical profession to have a satisfying sex life? I ask this because I am 20 years old and am starting medical school in about 2 years. I have only kissed one girl in my life who was a girlfriend of mine in high school. We broke up over go... (230 words)

I don't feel like being intimate with my husband when he's behaving so distant with me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for about two years things are fairly great between us, we have always try to deal with situations cordially, we try to always communicate with each other, we try to work through all issues how ever small they may be, but I was wondering if I ... (365 words)

I give because I love him but he's wearing me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Let me explain what happened. He wanted me to meet him at a restaurant near by because a couple of co-workers retired that day. He wanted to have a couple drinks, I said okay cool, I'll meet you there. Well, I get there and we sit at the bar while his coworkers sat on the othe... (451 words)

I don't know what to do. Why am I getting the silent treatment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster You just do. I know it sounds like I'm simplifying it...but that's just the honest truth. If you're waiting for the moment when it feels "right" to end your relationship, or doesn't hurt...you'll never do it. It DOES hurt to walk awa... (641 words)

To protect financial assets is it possible to live with man I broke up with in the home we purchased?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to live with your ex even though you have broken up? We've just bought a house together that is a joint bond. I've experience a lot from my boyfriend which I can no longer bear, but my problem is the house because I cannot let him own it alone, where as there wi... (116 words)

Should I break up with him, so I can stop obsessing about who he might be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm 23 years old,and I'm dating an actor here, due to which I get to know know everything he does,even if I don't want to..sometimes things are written about him with pictures and when I ask him about it,he says I'm over reacting.. I know through his friends that... (217 words)

In love with my cousin but he broke it off due to "family talk". How can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my cousin. We were together first as best friends for years, we be came closer after he got divorced. I helped him get thru it and helped him become more confident. We started hanging out more and more as we were both lonely. One day we went out and it leade... (116 words)

Parents hate my best friend. How can I convince them she's changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents absolutley hate my bestfriend. They think she is a bad influence on me and that she has changed me for the worse. She is actually a very sweet girl who has changed a lot from who she used to be, and i have no idea what to tell them. They won't let me hang out with ... (100 words)

What can I do to relax and cope and overcome my fear of sex with my husband? We love each other and he is a good husband.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i am a married girl. My husband loves and cares for me. he is a very good husband and i too love him a lot. but the problem is i am scared of sex. i will get scared of pain. whenever we want to have sex, i will become scared and then we cant have sex. What should i do? ... (76 words)

How would you define the differences between FWB versus FB relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm curious about FWB and FB relationships. What exactly are they? I know what the terms stand for just need to know the differences. In a FWB relationship is there really friendship? In a FB relationship is it just do the deed and leave? Who is the one that ma... (101 words)

Why does me ex try his best to make me sad? He says we can be friends, but never marry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to said thank you for letting me ask a question on this site. I am gay latin man that I was in a relationship for almost 2 year, and my ex put condition on me that I have to get along with his friend. His friends are his EX-boyfriend and the guy who introduced his e... (161 words)

How can I tell him the truth? Now or in September, when he has such high expectations of how I look?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy on the internet three years ago and we started talking. I lied to him and told him I had, had sex. We stopped talking for a while but recently we re-gained our friendship. When I say friendship I mean he is a really good friend. I want to tell him I lied t... (206 words)

We're both in relationships. Does he like me? So how do I Forget him, even though we work together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so lets give you some brief history, i'm going to keep it vague just in case he ever stumbles on this! So I joined a music group about 4 years ago now, and I've had a crush on this guy (lets call him Jack) every time I'm in a room with him I get tense. I try not... (559 words)

My girl friend is bi-curious and wants a three-some.I'm not sure. Can I have advice on this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, new member here in need of some help! Background: Me (22), GF (19) Been together since Nov 2012, already in love. Lost my virginity to her (saving myself for someone special, she didn't know I was), she has now had 6 sexual partners; but I'm the best she's h... (651 words)

He's asked me to sign a Pre-nup! It made me Soooo Mad. Should I just sign the thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of 3 years is in the US Army and on Skype one night he told me to go to my front door. He had someone go write on my front porch step "will you marry me?" And the ring box sitting there with a vase of flowers. When I went back to the computer I found him down... (262 words)

My boyfriend arranged for his 4 year old daughter to live with us without talking to me first

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old dating a wonderful 32 year old man. I've known from the beginning that he has a 4 year old daughter from an ex- girlfriend. We live in Colorado, and the daughter lives with her mother in Florida. My borfriend visits his daughter once a year for a few days, ... (470 words)

Should I stay with my current boyfriend or return to my playboy ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy over the Internet. We started talking and we ended up falling head over hills for eachother. As we started to become more serious we started to be open about our relationship. I told my friends and then my family. My family disapproved of him big time, which ma... (466 words)

How can I deal with his constant baseless accusations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend constantly accuses me of the smallest stupidest things. For an example, today we were supposed to get out of the house, and go out to eat. He decides to bring along his friend. We're in the restaurant have out food and I looked at his phone and then asked him f... (295 words)

Does he act this way because he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I think my guy friend likes me but he would never admit it. I have known him sense 5th grade and we are in 8th now. We are friends and enemys at the same time sometimes he says were not friends but other times he says we are. The reason why i think he likes me is because ... (178 words)

How do I overcome my fear of kissing? Together seven months and I'm still fearful of kissing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months, neither of us have had our first kiss with anyone. We really want to kiss each other and he tells me he will all the time but doesn't. I know he's waiting for me. I need an answer; How do I overcome my fear and kiss him... (60 words)

Have I lost her? Or could I ever rekindle the love between us? I think she's lost trust in me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl I work with we have known each other for 9 months. For three of those months we were casually dating but we only went on a few dates but we would talk regularly every day. Just when things we starting to get serious her father was diagnoised with cancer. So l... (424 words)

Premature Ejaculation. Where do I go to get help? Who can help fix this? Because my Gf is getting sick of sex with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My gf and I have been sexually active for about 2 years now, but lately she seems so bored of with sex. I mean she seems to have enough. I gave her long breaks from time to time and no im not trying to force it on her. Its just that when ever we do it she doesnt seem like to... (153 words)

I'm interested in hearing from aunts with counseling, psychology, social work studies or careers.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Howdy aunts and uncles, love your work by the way :) So basically I've lost my job a couple of weeks ago, wasn't an enjoyable job, just something to pay the bills and now I'm ready to pursue a career in something I'm interested in. Which has led me to ask many questions, ... (226 words)

I'm lost and confused about how he feels about me, whether I can get pregnant and why he stops talking to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have being seeing this guy for five months on and off every time we have sex he tells me he wants me to marry him and wants me to have his baby so he can keep me forever.. Is he crazy or am I? Another thing every time we have sex he cumms inside me and I haven't got pregnant ... (124 words)

How do you define "cheating"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone? My question is very simple, and i'm just interested in knowing what your opinions are on this. What do YOU class as cheating? I'm going through a situation right now where i'm wondering whether the lad i'm close to is 'cheeting' on his girlfriend... Wou... (80 words)

He treats me like just another friend! I question how deep his feelings are for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having problems. We've been fighting all day and night because of it. I feel like I'm putting my all into our relationship (quit talking to ex's for him, tell him everyday how much he means to me, ect.) I have got nothing in return. He is NEVER ... (229 words)

Is there something wrong with the fact that I just cannot see myself in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - All of my friends seem to be in a relationship, or interested in someone. The running joke in my group of friends is that i am a "whore" and cannot stick to one guy. I've been asked out before, and have liked guys before, but nothing has ever escalated to a serious ... (69 words)

Am I more than just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy for 10 years now, starting back in elementary school. We went separate ways in middle school, but reunited in high school. We hung out a lot and then one day we kissed. I started to like him from then on, but he kept sending me mixed signals. He only wanted ... (162 words)

I want to add some Dom-sub aspects and light bondage to our personal lives, but I don't want to scare him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I had a very difficult engagement. It was short, I lived on other side of state for 3 months for college, then moved to where he lives and my home town and started college so we didn't see much of each other during our engagement. Now we're married for 5 months ... (141 words)

My ex husband is constantly fighting my current partner!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a mother of twin girls aged 6 from my ex husband. We divorced offically in August last year and he has a great relationship with the twins. We were 18 and 20 when i became pregnant and we married when the twins were aged 8 months. We were far too young to marry but i did ... (413 words)

How can I ask him for another hookup without sounding slutty or needy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

4 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - After coming out of a very serious relationship and getting my heart broken i've decided to swear off realtionships for a while and just have fun. So basically at a party I hooked up with one of my male friends and we had pretty awesome sex. The thing is, I want to do it again. ... (84 words)