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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The ex factor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age - ex has been talking to me for almost a year now. He is now married. I only talk to him when he's working. He's retiring soon. I won't be able to call him because i won't know his schedule and he gives this to me so I know when to call him. What should I do?? I told him I'll ... (82 words)

I wish I didn't have feelings for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. What do you think is the best solution for two people who can't let go of one another, yet what drove them apart in the first place is a fundamental issue of principle. Neither one of us has been able to move along with our lives for almost 3 years now and (wel... (324 words)

FWB become girlfriend. Is it too soon to propose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl and I started seeing each other a year ago last week. I was not long out of a serious relationship and in the beginning it was just a 'friends with benefits' arrangement. We had known each other for almost three years and lived together for a few months at one point. ... (194 words)

My girlfriend had me charged for a crime when she was the one who has been abusive

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My life is in such a mess! I was with my girlfriend for about two years. Anyway, after a few months I caught her cheating. But I took her back. Then I caught her cheating again and I took her back. She then started to raise her hands to me about 6 months ago. A couple of... (310 words)

How can I get everyone in the house to help? Not just me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My mom has long run a busy household which was always full. All my life my mom only ever let me Hoover or dust and that was when I asked to do it. If you ever offered to do dishes or washing she would tell you " you won't do it properly" No it's only in the last year ... (437 words)

Should we move fiance's disabled sister in with us? She isn't being treated right at her home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if I should move my fiance's disabled sister in with us. She is very sweet and respectful and high-functioning (considering her multiple disabilities, and she currently lives on her own. My fiance and I drive her to places she needs to go, and she also has a ... (207 words)

Should I leave him? He has no job, and he doesn't want to marry me. We have a child together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - firstly,i am a 24 year old lady who has a daughter to my boyfriend for 8 years. We are living together on his parents' house.he has no job and i am a homebase computer worker. My pregnancy when i was 19 wasnt planned though we're already 4 years in our relationship. We had our ... (296 words)

My ex will not see me and is using her mother as a shield

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear cupids My heart is breaking because the girl I love (Caroline) is refusing to speak to me. Caroline has ended our relationship on a weekly basis pretty much for the whole of the last year. But we truly love each other and we both know we are meant to be. In September... (792 words)

Made love ? or just sex ? whats difference .. how do you know if you made love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if you made love to someone ? and it wasn't just sex.. whats the difference ???... (22 words)

How can I tell whether or not this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I find it really hard to read this boy! He shows some signs he likes me such as laughs at my jokes, smiles at me, is different around me, makes fun of me. But when I told him I liked him before he didn't take it too well cus he liked someone else, but I know now he doesn't like ... (89 words)

Can I make my breasts perky?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old, and I hate, hate, hate my boobs. They're cone-shaped and point downward. I'm 36B, and I'm completely healthy. I'm terrified when boyfriends ask to see them. In the past, I've had guy friends accidentally see them, and all they had to say was "Eh... they're n... (149 words)

My lecturer has been flirting, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Im 17 and I go to a college and recently one of my lecturers has been acting weird towards me. I mean weird as in flirting with me. Firstly he is 28. He is in nearly every one of my lessons and because college is so relaxed we sit around a lot talking. Over these last ... (452 words)

Is this friendship worth trying to save, or am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this guy for about a year. We're both in college. We used to stay up all night on the weekends, doing silly things or just hanging around watching movies, and we would talk on Facebook for hours. I am very solitary by nature and don't make friends ... (490 words)

Partner's mother belittles me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone , I'm in a long distance relationship, we see each other every 2 weeks or more . The problem is his mother, she belittles me quiet a lot, she talks to me as a child and i am finding it really annoying now . I told him how I felt in a email because I didn't want to... (133 words)

Is he too comfortable with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hello so my question is that normal ify boyfriend masturbate in front of me while were making love, cause i feel uncomftable looking to him ? we are ldr so im might been shy to express myself in bed with him... (41 words)

Feeling neglected. Why doesn't my partner want to make love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together 2 and a half years and we love each other dearly. He is very affectionate and cuddles me and kisses me but when it's time for bed he just turns over and goes to sleep. Leaving me feeling frustrated, hurt and neglected. I know that it's daft ... (109 words)

Is spotting normal with the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone About a month ago I had unprotected sex, he didn't actually go inside me anytime but thought it was best to get the morning after pill anyway. After getting the morning after pill I was told to come back 4 weeks later and as I was there I took a few packs of ... (158 words)

My niece is sleeping with my ex boyfriend. Should I confront her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was involved with a guy for a period of time. I left him because of his womanising ways. Since then my niece saw it fit to contact him and send him dirty pictures of herself to him and he send to her. My niece knew he and I were involved. I stopped speaking to her almost a ... (145 words)

Fallen in love with my husband after our arranged marriage, but struggling to say "I love you". Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got married...it was an arranged marriage..after marriage I fell head over heels in love with my husband....idealising him like anything..a month or so he went to the states while I have to wait for my visa process to finish..long story short we are separated by ... (201 words)

My father wont allow me to marry the man I love and wants to force me into marrying someone of his choice, is there any way to escape this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear All I am in a state of dilemma these days. I am in love with a guy since past 3 years, we both are settled doing private jobs, he being at a senior position, me at mid level in different companies.We were together in our last organization where our rel;ationship st... (483 words)

How do I get my partner to do more foreplay, and have sex more often?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles just a quick question. What do you do when you have a partner that wont do much or any foreplay. He will not do oral sex at all, not even once a year, he will kiss me before and during sex, I do have to intiate it most of the time. He doesnt rub me anymore ... (266 words)

I think I need to be patient and keep showing my love for her despite us breaking up, any further advice on how I should proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

- Last January, I met a young woman online(let's call her Sue) and over the course of a few months we fell in love. We both live overseas in Europe; our countries are neighboring ones. I traveled to see her in the summer, we fell more in love but during my last trip she had panic ... (385 words)

We've only been dating for a month but my feelings seem to be fading, what is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who I've been seeing, it started out where I realised we had the same sense of humour and other interests. Well at the weekend (friday) she met my parents and my mum said we get on really well and what not and I had never felt do strongly over someone, we were ... (191 words)

He broke up with me over text, when 4 days before he was telling me how much he loved me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I'm falling to pieces. I dated this NAVY guy online for 5 months before we met. I was skeptical at first, didn't want another dead end relationship. I told him I wasn't looking to get serious, I just wanted to chat and get to know him. Over time, we both started ... (1617 words)

Should I complain? Or am I the one over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! Right i was in Uni yesterday there is a 41 year old guy there basically yesterday we had a mock exam and after it was finished he was searching around everywhere so i asked him what he was looking for. He said an earring i said well i'm not sure if you wore both i ... (266 words)

Why do some women find aggressive behaviour in men a turn on? I don't get the female mind!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all I have a question on the confusing female mind! I was chatting with a couple of women recently and they both confused the hell out of me. One had slept with some chavy guy who she regretted sleeping with but said she did it because the he carried a knife and it tur... (278 words)

Is there any way I can make sex more comfortable for my girlfriend? She thinks I'm too well endowed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - We have been dating for about 4 and a half years now and used to regularly have sex, sometimes 2 or 3 times in one day and she could handle it, granted she was 16 and I just turned 17 when this happened. We have since slowed down a lot, down to sometimes just once a week or ... (287 words)

My girlfriend wont stop using dating sites but makes me out to be the bad guy! What have I done wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Will someone please understand where I went wrong and what I did what was wrong? I have dumped my girlfriend because yet again she is on dating sites. She is not letting it go and is behaving like I have done her the greatest injustice for leaving after catching her for at ... (135 words)

How do I deal with my demanding brothers and step-mom who doesn't seem to care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i feel really bad and unimportant to my stepmom, she's the one i live with my dad and my 2 full blood brothers and i have 2 stepbrothers. i'm the only girl but when it comes to calling each other i take them all as my brothers and treat them all the same, i try to do things ... (341 words)

We have been together 3 years but my boyfriend wont meet my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for 3 years now and it's been good until it comes to this: he won't meet any of my friends. He's hung out with me and my siblings a few times but the last time he almost got in a fight with my brother. Since then i made sure that ... (220 words)

She made me wait for her for 4 hours then I found out she lied about where she was! Shall I end it now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 9 months told me she had to meet up with her girl friends for lunch, I had no objections to this. I was at a hotel when she went to lunch, I checked out of the Hotel at 1:30 pm, she was supposed to meet me around the check out time (1:30 PM) because she was ... (237 words)

The EX factor is over-shadowing our relationship. She'll always be in our lives so how do I cope better with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m currently in a relationship with the most wonderful guy and have been for 10 months now... Everything is near enough perfect, except one thing, his EX girlfriend. My partner has a daughter of 2 years with his EX girlfriend, and she is adorable, but my partners EX is a psy... (399 words)

My partner is constantly belittling my looks, my opinions and my intelligence.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

22 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my partner and he loves me, but I dont feel like he appreciates me. I am an attractive lady and have always had a lot of male attention my whole life. I am now 36 yrs old and look probably 28 yrs old. Not that I am basing who I am off my looks as I am a very kind and lo... (561 words)