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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it silly that I ask boyfriend for money every month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I got divorced bought a house. My bf got divorced lived at his moms then I asked him 2 move in when I made the decision that my kids were to live w\their dad. My bf helped me with my house since I first bought it....he helps around house..gets dinner and groceries once in a ... (193 words)

I know hes married, but is he attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok soo, i really like this married man. i think he may like me. He's always lingering around when he picks his child up(i work at a daycare) and he introduced himself to me. After our brief chat he says, "its nice to meet you, finally!" So i know hes noticed me before. One time ... (99 words)

A little help with gift ideas for the treasure hunt please...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It is my boyfriends birthday in two weeks. He will be away at university. I really wanted to surprise him but I can't be there on the day. Also, he has an exam that day too. I was thinking of organising some sort of scavenger hunt with little notes and presents with the help of ... (99 words)

I always get anxious when talking to people, as I believe everyone is judging me by my hair color.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

6 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Would be really grateful for help. Im a 21 year old bisexual guy, who unfortunately has ginger hair. This seems to be my main issue in life as I see it as the reason for having no confidence or self esteem. Iv never been in a relationship or had sex, but really want to. ... (182 words)

Why the reluctance? My Bf will not invite me to his home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend will not invite me round his house its been 6 months and I still have not met his family :( I get he doesnt have a lot of spare time out of school but his brother who is in sixth form and his girfriend (who are always round his) keep trying to invite me round on... (209 words)

How should I handle our post break-up issues due to us now living in the same place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

6 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a 'break-up' problem. 3 weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months (plus the year we dated). It was mutual, since I didn't feel she was quite herself around me anymore. It all started with a sort of alternative education we both were interested in - a boar... (267 words)

I don't want things to get too sexual yet. So what do I do next time my Bf wants to try more making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I were making out, and he was playing with my boobs, squeezing and rubbing them hard. Then he kissed down my neck and started kissing/sucking on my boobs. It felt really good and I really enjoyed it, but in the future what should i do while he is doing it... (90 words)

Why do guys do this? Hot then cold? Happy to see you one minute, then blank disinterest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I'd like help with something that I don't understand. this is for people who like understanding other people's behaviours. I've noticed it mostly from guys. I'll explain it with an example. there was a guy on a bus that I knew from school, who I hadn't seen for years. ... (217 words)

I like this guy and don't want to mess up. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I feel in love after a long time but the problem is I don't know if this guy loves me back. We have been hooking up for movies and texting but my problem is I like him so much and I don't wanna mess up. Also I don't wanna have sex before anything. Butt the thing is... (138 words)

Met him on online gaming site. What should I keep in mind? Is this too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy on an online game site and he is 3 years older...I really like him but I just got out of a serious relationship and I don't want to move to fast and mess it up. He is really great and he gets me but he lives 3 states away. he already told me he likes but it seem... (112 words)

Married but it's temporarily a LSDR. Scared of Change. Do I stay with my safe job? Or try a new opportunity with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. So, I've been married a for few months. My husband and I are currently in an LSDR, but he's planning on moving back here soon. Thing is, we both hate it here where I live and where he'd be headed soon. It's a terrible social/economical situation with awful n... (294 words)

Broke up due to his use of dating sites. Not civil either. So why does he try to deny or hide that he has a new GF?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

6 January 2013 (?) age - My ex went on a mid life crisis spree..we split up because he was on the dating sites and setting up relationships with them every month......why ? He has stopped communication with his kids....and as far as facebook everytime he comes on he deactivates it. He has a pic of thi... (183 words)

I was in a relationship when I met my (now) husband and cheated. Does this make the marriage doomed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! When I was with my ex I cheated on him with my current husband (who was my "lover" for a short while before I left my bf to be with him). So, do you think my marriage is doomed because it started this way? I am so in love with my husband, but sometimes I feel that somethin... (169 words)

Fear of making love and getting pregnant is ruining my relationship. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years now. We have had our whole loads of up and downs but in the end, we've always made it through, somehow not being able to stay away from each other. We were both virgins when we got together and lost our virginit... (575 words)

Lack of experience and concern about my size is holding me back from forming relationships.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

6 January 2013 (M) age 30-35 - I am a virgin and I am interested in sex and relationships but I am afraid because I am in experienced and i have a small penis. The internet forums I have been on I have seen women talk about not being able to stay with otherwise great guys who were not gifted and or lacked s... (172 words)

BF of 2 years either doesn't pick up the phone, or he's verbally abusive. Is this because he got sex and doesn't need me now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years lives in a different city, I visited him 2 days back and we spent a day together. I came back to my work city yesterday. From yesterday he is not picking my calls or calling me back. Even if he picks up, he calls me bitch and slut and treats my ... (160 words)

Broke up with my ex of 2 yrs. It was 2 months ago but I don't feel I'm moving on. Is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 years and I recently broke up. I guess it's not really recently its been since Thanksgiving. She has a new boyfriend and I have new girlfriend who I like a lot don't get me wrong, but I can't seem to shake off my past girlfriend. I mean I was in love with her... (204 words)

I was expecting him to visit 2 days ago and haven't heard a word! I don't know what it means or what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Really confused by this guy's actions. We met on a dating site about a month ago. Really seemed like we hit it off. We started talking every day and we went on a several dates. We went out to dinner and I met his parents. He wanted me to hang out with him more than I was ... (212 words)

Boyfriend is being evasive. Is he scared of change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - When my husband left, my daughters and I were left with nothing. We had to start from scratch. I started dating my boyfriend 3 1/2 years ago, after my husband left. 6 months later he asked me to marry him when my divorce came thru. We are finally situated and stable and my d... (163 words)

So nervous on the first date, I think I blew it! How should I proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello aunts .... I've posted on here before and the advice helped me greatly .. so here I am again with a situation I could use some help with .... Having been out of a serious relationship since last summer I decided recently to try online dating .... it wasn't for me so... (243 words)

I have no motivation. How can I stop procrastinating and enjoy life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure what is wrong... I have been feeling sad, lack motivation, and interest. I just want to watch tv all day except when I have to go to work. I have tons of things I need to get done in life, but I just sit on my couch and put it off. What can I do to get that excitem... (75 words)

How do I meet a guy for a lasting relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationships with men have been unsteady and rocky, even though, I have tried to have a lasting one. It seems like the men I am interested in are not interested in me and leave abruptly or cause me to break up with them. I think I am fairly attractive as I get unsolici... (111 words)

My BF of 7.5 years, father of our son, won't propose! I want us to be married, but he says he's not ready now.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and live with my boyfriend, who is 31 years old and we have been together for over 7 years. Together we have a son of 3 1/2 years old. We have lived together most of our relationship. We fell in love fast and knew immediately we wanted to stay together. O... (1263 words)

My relationship feels awesome, but I'm always expecting something bad to happen! How do I let go of these irrational fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have this little problem. About 6 months ago, I met a guy who I initially detested, in a science research station. He was gross to me, I hated everything about him, the way he looked, the things he was talking about, we had absolutely different opinions on pretty much ... (244 words)

How do I deal with his past with prostitutes he never mentioned until we were together? I'm so depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh my god, it hurts SO bad. When I met my bf he told me he was like me and could count his sexual partners on his fingers. That he waited for sex and was really old fashion. Never had a 1 night stand. We slept in the same bed and he didn't even try and get with me. I felt ... (438 words)

My mum dislikes my BF because of our past problems. How can I change her opinion of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I started going out with one of my closest friends at the start of last year and I was so happy. I loved him so much. Unfortunatly, he left me after 9 months whilst I was on holiday. I was so devastated and it put me in a really bad place, and my mum and dad were furious ... (383 words)

Karma: people seem to get rewarded for bad behaviour, so is there any point in being a good person?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if anyone saw anything bad happen to bad people? I see a guy who cheated in the IQ test to get a job become the manager of a company. I see a woman who cheated on her husband living happily with her husband and kid. I see disloyal people having friends a... (122 words)

I think I want to split with my BF of 3 years but I'm scared I won't meet anyone else and doubtful about ending it. Any thought?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I'm having a bit of a quarter life crisis right now and I'm looking for some advice. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Recently I have come to realise that I don't think I can't see myself marrying him. He is quite a selfish guy, and I have spent a ... (333 words)

Are public displays of affection at work OK or not? In disagreement with my BF over this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! Hope you can help with some advice on this small issue. How much physical contact is OK/to be expected from your partner when at work? We work in different departments and when we met up for lunch he wanted to walk with his arm around me down the main corridor... (180 words)

What can I do about my friends rude boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my friend for years longer than his boyfriend. I can't stand my friends boyfriend because he is so rude. He always answers for my friend and butts in. My friend can answer for himself. The boyfriend also answers everything with " if you're got a problem, see a th... (95 words)

Been seeing him for 3 months but he won't say whether or not it's a relationship. How do I get him to open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids, advice needed. After a horrid start to last year (splitting with ex due to him cheating while I was having our baby) I met someone a few months after who's a really good guy. We've been together now 3 months, see each other 5/6 times a wk, sex is amazing, we click! ... (194 words)

Is this as sign that my husband is having an affair?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had a strand of hair wrapped around his penis. It wasn't mine. He says that our daughters hair that gets everywhere including our brushes in our room, has got caught in his clothes and worked its way down there. And that this is a common occurrence. I know this hap... (95 words)

My husband has terminal cancer and has suggested we have a baby. I'm very confused about what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé has terminal cancer and has asked me if I want a baby to look after me when he's gone. I feel so confused because we had talked about getting married and having a child together before he was diagnosed and it was something we had both wanted. Now I feel it would be ... (195 words)

I love this girl and told her about my feelings. I talked of proposing and she hasn't said yes or no. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

6 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to her since last 9 months. 16 days ago I told her everything, how I feel. While I was telling her all my feelings she was smiling in between...I felt that she already knew I was going to propose to her soon and we had a chat that time in that she didn't say ... (313 words)

BF won't move back to my state, and I won't move to his. Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So...here it goes...a little over 7 months ago, my boyfriend moved back down to Florida because he "hated New Jersey". He claimed it was because he couldn't find a job here and that he missed his mom. Since he's been back to Florida, he hasn't gotten a job, has been hanging ... (598 words)

Can a drunken kiss ever be a sincere kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've known this guy for 15 years, but we've never really talked. Over the years we've seen each other at parties, sometimes drunk and other times not, and we talk at all of the parties. Before Christmas, we talked while I was drunk and he was sober and it was nice. then on ... (176 words)

If I can sleep through my husband's nocturnal fondling could I not also sleep through a home invasion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out one morning my husband was rubbing my butt in the middle of the night to attempt to wake me but I was sound asleep through the whole rubbing ordeal. He told me the next morning but it worries me that if when he's working one night and somebody breaks in I would sl... (84 words)

I am so bloody angry at my dad!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really angry at my dad. He is so bloody annoying. I'm like 22 and I can't enjoy my bloody life. My parents want me to live life the way they think is right. They want to stuff me with goodies and fatty food and sit at home and join the fucking family business. I'm not like... (287 words)

My jealous girlfriend is making my life miserable

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

6 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Hope you can give me some advice. My girlfriend of one year is very jealous and insecure. She is pressuring me to ask me to marry her lately. She is a fun girl to be with and I like her a lot. But I am not ready for marriage. My gf is always texting me ask... (216 words)

I went 'no contact' and he found somebody else!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - ok cutting a long story short as possible!!..the guy who i was chasing and then i decided to go no contact with..i recently heard from his 'friends' that he had met somebody else and that he was serious about her!!..(bearing in mind that he told me he wasnt ready for a ... (317 words)

Maybe I should just give up and accept I am single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

6 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I split up with my partner of 4 years over 7 years ago. I was 39 then and I shall be 46 soon. It was an unhealthy relationship. I had a brief relationship (6 months) about 7 months later, but nothing since then. I have been doing internet dating during the last ... (334 words)