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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are these signs that he likes me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It was my birthday yesterday I had a party and uninvited a close boy who is a friend we had a past I used to like him and we had been on a couple of outings together (surfing cinema) and I thought of Him as a close friends and it progressed in to me liking him but he didn't l... (186 words)

Is it creepy to have a relationship with him when he posted online for causal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Met a guy on a dating site, we totally clicked and I really really like him and he feels the same about me. We have so much in common too. Seems great right, but I recently found that he or someone that looks amazing like him, posted pics and stuff on a "looking for casual ... (105 words)

Am I too jealous of what my boyfriend watches?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We are really close. He would never ever cheat on me. Yet I still have jealousy issues. I feel like my jealousy is severe. Like some other women, I don't like when my boyfriend watches TV because I know he sees other women nude from ... (223 words)

Why did he come back to ignore me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up in 2010.. He had a gf as soon as we broke up but that didn't stop us from sleeping together.. We stopped talking for 8 months then he decided to email my cousin on facebook so she can give me his new number! We started back talking and ... (75 words)

They don't accept my boyfriend, how do I tell my parents that I am pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, and thank you for your advice. I am a 25 year old girl with Sri Lankan origin, but I am born and raised in Norway. The problem is that I am now nearly 5 months pregnant, but toooo scared to tell my parents. I have been with my boyfriend for the last 6 years. I ... (456 words)

She went to give me oral sex and I lost my erection! Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my girlfriend was going to give me a blowjob. It was the first time she'd done it and it was the first time for me. Now this gonna sound creepy but for the whole 30 min walk back to my house, just by holding her hand I had an erection so it's not through lack of ... (93 words)

His asexuality doesn't match my high sex drive! Can it possibly work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I am currently dealing with an issue I need some advice on. I have been in a relationship for several years and and my partner and I had always had an active sex life. I was always satisfied, though he could never reach orgasm. I have never been successful in sa... (389 words)

I made some bad decisions and now I'm confused about monogamy!

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20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an older man (39) online last year and when we finally met, we had amazing chemistry. We quickly fell in love and married after only 3 weeks. Everything seemed great and we experimented with many sexual fantasies. We are both bisexual and invited men and women to join us ... (290 words)

Can a so-called friend sabotage the things you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Is it possible for a so called close friend to sabotage the things you choose to do? I have known a this friend for several years, when we first met, I was going through a downtime and at the time she was a very good distraction as we would just go out and have fun. Things f... (304 words)

FWB tells me to "enjoy the moment", but the moment is now 18 months and one aborted pregnancy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am in an fb or fwb relationship for a year and half now. He is a coworker and friend who flirted a little with me. Because of my personal problems ie divorce, no final financial settlement and children now 8 and 4 entrusted to father by court I prefered to be alone. Father... (397 words)

My boyfriend doesn't show me any affection. I've tried everything to improve myself. What else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. He's in the military and is divorced with 2 kids. After a year of long distance relationship, I decided to move in with him. I am having the hardest time not receiving affection from him. When we first st... (358 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend? How can I do it without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16. Recently I started a relationship with this guy, but I made a mistake that hurt him and me. Eventually we worked things out and got back together. Before my mistake I was feeling like I wanted to break up with him- things just didn't feel RIGHT if that makes sense... (156 words)

Dumped by a guy who I think is a sociopath. How can I get over him when I have to see him at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question on here earlier about trying to get my ex back. We go to the same professional school in a class of less than 150 and I will be here for another two and a half years. To sum up the relationship: We started with something physical and it morphed into som... (567 words)

Marriage is just about over but I still have questions ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been one month since I last wrote to this site. I can't say that a lot has happened until about two weeks ago... I sought out counselling finally! He is very supportive and listens to me. Right now I'm at a major intersection and about to make a serious decision... (1568 words)

What is the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, Can anyone please give advice from experience about the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship? I've been with my BF for over a year now and I've had a bad feeling about his female work colleauge. He started mentioning... (272 words)

How can you suddenly be so happy with the sort of people that previously you couldn't stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is not one of them questions where I'm asking for advice on how to get over someone, its more of asking for an understanding to why things have changed as they have. Basically me and this guy liked each other for years and then finally got together, 5 months later i... (483 words)

"time apart" means break? or break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - If your boyfriend says we need time apart, no contact for a bit is it okay to clarify if this is a "break" or "breakup" or should I just give up... (31 words)

Boyfriend claims that I just want a ring as a prize!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been talking about marriage. Please note that I am a grown woman with a degree, a job, my own home, car, pay all of my own bills, am completely self-supprting. I am generous in relationships in general with my resources and my time. Not ... (326 words)

Why did it hurt when I had sex for the first time yesterday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend of six months and he was a virgin too, I'm 17 years old and I don't regret it at all. Ok so when we first started doing it, it was kinda awkward but later we got it right. And we used a condom too. I didn't bleed an... (174 words)

He wants me to give up my dream of children because he already has 4 kids

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am desperately in.love with an.older man. i met him 2years ago however i have learned that he has 4 kids to his ex gf. i know he has been.hurt in.the past but he.wants me to give up my chances of having children because he already has them. i dont know what what to do i.mean ... (71 words)

Boyfriend lied.. how to trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. He is my first, but he has had one long term relationship before me. We have had a great relationship in every aspect and nothing has threatened it so far. Well.. i admit sometimes it does feel like we are getting a bit too ... (657 words)

How can I tell my boyfriend that he doesn't need to bring up his children in every conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a horrible person that has hurt ny boyfriend in the past. I have changed however and he can see that. He has kids to another girl that he only gets to.see every known and then. i feel like he still loves this girl no matter how much he tells me he doesnt. tonight he called ... (206 words)

A girl at work told me that she's been having an affair with my dad, she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!! How will I ever cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I found out off my friend [a girl in work] that she's been having an affair with my dad. What she said next was the kicker - she told me she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!!! I feel sick, disgusted and upset - and I told my mum abou... (202 words)

He had sex with me and now that I havent heard from him, my fear is coming true

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i've been seeing for a while now, i felt really comfortable with him and i've known for ages i wanted to sleep with him, just i wanted to be sure that he was interested in me and not wanting me for sex. So it's been over 3 months, which isn't long but i was impressed ... (313 words)

Is is true that guys think less make up is better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So the guy i'm seeing has been coming over mine recently, the thing is at the beginning I used to wear a lot of make up thinking i needed it. But now i've noticed I like waking up with only a bit of makeup and feeling more fresh looking, although i'm still wearing makeup ... (237 words)

Worried about my gf never ever being jealous or mad at me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - dear aunts and uncles, i've been dating this girl for a year now and we get along great, that great that she never picks a fight, she has ever been mad with me about anything, she is over confident about me, she never, ever get jelaous i feel like she is so secure about me that ... (112 words)

I asked my ex to meet up and she totally ignored me. What does that mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex girlfriend are back in touch in after 3 months. I asked jer to meet up and she completely ignored the question and changed the subject. What does this mean!?!... (33 words)

Would I be a horrible wife if I found another home for this terrible dog?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do about my husband's dog! He found the dog wondering the streets and took him in when no one claimed him. This was before we even started dating. I quickly realized why no one wanted to claim this dog... He was not potty trained (this is something we still ... (216 words)

How do I live the rest of my life married to someone I don't love and I can't marry again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am 30+ years old Indian (Asian) women with a great career. Married but not living with my husband (no kids, he is impotent), it was arranged marriage we never got along well. Trying for divorce, but my husband wants to give this another chance, but i dont. I di... (159 words)

What are the risks of falling for older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the risks of falling for older men? I keep falling for older men, some are married and some are single. I have slept with a few of them and had intercourse. I hate being alone and I think older men know how to treat a woman, am I right doing this or should I take my ... (81 words)

Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Met this guy online. First date was at his house, and yes ended up making out in his bed but no sex. Second time i was drunk and lonely. He texted and ask if i want to go over to "cuddle". again i agreed, and i ended up at his house. No sex as well. Had some argument after t... (256 words)

Is it fair to expect any future girlfriend not to have more experience than me and to not have dated a "bad boy" then?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

20 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I am very inexperienced, and am still a virgin at 19. I want a girlfriend who will be loyal, loving, beautiful and giving. I have some confidence issues when it comes to girls. The few compliments I ever get, other girls tell me about a girl talking about me way too late and I ... (206 words)

Do people somehow get a free pass to behave less well because they have an ex and kids? While those without an ex and kids are expected to come second?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts. Can I have your opinion on this: If one partner in a relationship is divorced with kids and the other never married no kids, what responsibility does the divorced partner have in the relationship? Is it less than if he had no kids or is it the same in terms of emoti... (182 words)

How can I break up with my internet buddy? Shall I just tell him the truth, even if he thinks I used him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my problem is that I started internet dating and met this guy and slept with him on our first date because I wanted to show my ex-bf that I could and had moved on. This guy is nice but now he is still around, he told me he loves me and wants to get married one day,... (150 words)

Can anyone help me feel better about this? My heart is broken over our breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My first love and I broke up a month ago. We had been together for 2 years and even lived together. We broke up because we both have issues, but mainly because he wasn't ready to be with one person forever and because he was in denial about being addicted to porn and would bl... (185 words)

I'm of Indian descent. Why do white guys want a relationship with me but ask for it to be a secret? It hurts me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that so many of the white guys I know that want a relationship with me wants one in secret? I'm tired of a guy saying I have a thing for Indian woman but no one can know about it. In public they would much rather be seen with someone from their own race. I don't ... (129 words)

Why can't I keep a friendship going? When I get closer the friendship falls apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I seem to have trouble keeping friendships. In the past year alone i have lost two close friends whom i did consider to be bestfriends. I feel like the longer i spend time with a person the farther we drift. I have friends who are not so close, and i'm fine with that. But ... (84 words)

Is he just trying to delay things more? I wanted something more permanent. He's got excuses ready (for why not) and I'm sick of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 49 and I am 43. We have been dating for 2 1/2 years. We have for the last several months spoken a little bit about getting married. We each have houses about 40 miles from each other, dogs, kids, jobs, the usual. It is often difficult to get together, bu... (828 words)

He seems unfazed by our break up. Why can't he accept that I've broken up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend seems unfazed by our break up. It has been a little over a month now and he has been sending me texts every now and then and I have just been ignoring him. He sent me a text today and we ended up chatting on yahoo messenger. I never really gave him a full explanat... (225 words)

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving full time in the military... (616 words)

Why does she keep on asking me about my Gf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

20 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl I work with continuously asks me about my relationship. She (and I) were a little bit flirty with each other for a while but I know she has a husband so I never persued anything. Any way I started dated another girl about a few months ago and just realized she alwa... (149 words)

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

20 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me, however I never ever came any... (297 words)