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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help him deal with the fact that he might become a father very soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a man a couple of months ago and he is great. Things were going really well until he found out that his ex-girlfriend is pregnant. They were together for a long time and she was apparently on the pill. He's not sure it's his (she has been with others since they split), ... (240 words)

How does one get over being cheated on and the insecurity that comes with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How does one get over the pain of being cheated on, and the insecurity that you will be cheated on in a new relationship? I have been cheated on by 3 separate men, all of whom I was involved in serious relationships with at the time. The last man I was with for 11 years, an... (207 words)

I was laughing with guy1 at my tutorial. When guy2 saw that he looked hurt. Did that indicate that guy2 was jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - In my tutorial I sit on a table with a guy and a girl. Today the girl was absent. The guy and I get on okay and it ended up being so much fun anyway when we were laughing. A guy I like looked at me and the other guy laughing. His face dropped he looked really hurt. I think th... (87 words)

He likes me. He likes me not! What's it to be? And how can I tell if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I like this guy and he doesn't know. I like him. I have tried to be flirty but I still don't know if he likes me. He is with me in most lessons and we see each other every day. He always turns around or calls me to turn. I am not sure if he likes me or not. He make... (112 words)

He met me, we've been friends for 7 months. The same day he had sex with her. Do I confront him? Or what else should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - okay this kid and I were talking for about seven months but we werent exclusive! a few days before my birthday we hung out and remind you we barely see each other, but when we do we dont waste a minute, but the last time we hung out we didnt have sex, but the day went perfectl... (368 words)

I'm not sure if first time sex felt right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had sex for the first time last night and I have some questions, I apologize if this is a little explicit... I didn't feel any pain when he entered me, thankfully- my hymen was already broken through fingering and he knew what he was doing so I was very turned on. But ... (367 words)

My husband going to massage parlors. Do I leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my Husband for five years. We both have two boys and all four of them live with us. About four years ago I found they my husband was on dating website we split up but decided to try and work things out. About two years ago I found out he was going to ... (229 words)

How can I sort things out with my g/f and tell her that we need to compromise and both take blame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone.. I really need some advice about my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years now and over the past year, its not been as good and a week ago we split up. The niggles that we have are often over silly things, we split up though over an ... (264 words)

Is my body not compatible with the IUD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I realise this isnt entirely a relationship question but i do genuinly need some help on this one.... i had an IUD fitted about 2/3 months ago and since then my periods have been eratic. I have bleed for 9/10 days the past 2 months, had head aches, high blood pressure, a vile... (153 words)

Should I choose my boyfriend over my home country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for re-posting this, but I have not managed to get any answers before. My boyfriend has decided to live in another country, as he's found there some really good educational and professional opportunities. I am still a student myself, went to university overseas, but be... (350 words)

How can a man be so cold as to cut contact with his own son and then make a family with a child that isn't his?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Please can somebody explain this to me... a few years ago when my son was 4. his father decided to cut contact. He pays money each month through the csa but doesn't have any contact with him. his girlfriend has a baby nephew and she is posting pictures on facebook of ... (152 words)

My brother's fiancee won't invite my boyfriend to family events!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My brother is getting married. I have been dating for over 2 yrs the same man who has been to all our holiday dinners. There is an engagement dinner for the close family and fiends to meet with invitations via interenet. It will be appx 20 people. I believe his finances' ... (150 words)

Does he have a mental disorder?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this might seem a bit random but i'm just wondering if anyone has experienced anything like this? My boyfriend is like no one i've ever met before, hes 21 near 22 we have been together for near 2 years and ive known him for 10. He has such a strange personality a... (345 words)

Should I tell my parents my boyfriend is older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is a few years older then me and i don't know if i should tell my parents about him because they might not let me see him anymore, what do i do?... (34 words)

Should I tell my ex that I'm going to sleep with his room mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I had kind of a terrible breakup. The issue was that he refused to cuddle with me at all and if I tried to touch him, he would recoil and physically shove me away, which made me feel really bad about myself. He also seemed to enjoy the company of one of his new ... (603 words)

How do I stop caring about women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Is there a way to shut down emotions? I am a guy who has only ever had one girlfriend, an ex now... and is still a virgin. I feel so much pressure to date many women and have sex to prove I am a man. In my relationship I treated her like a princess and she liked that but I kn... (294 words)

Boyfriend could have cheated, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My new boyfriend of one month has basically been accused for cheating on me. What can I say? Thought I might of had a nice one but now I beleive I could be wrong. Basically he went to one of his close friends ho... (1019 words)

Am I overstepping my bounds with my friend? He has a GF and I'm struggling to understand his actions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want to make sure I'm not over stepping my bounds here, and I need a little help interpreting someones actions, as I'm afraid my interpretations may be a little off. I have been hanging out with one of my friends a lot more now. He's funny, nice, quirky, and just... (412 words)

My 50 year old male friend is Facebook friends with girls as young as 17. Is this a Red Flag?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who friends a lot of young girls all around the world from 17 to 28, on his Facebook. He is almost 50. I don't think this is appropriate. He does have some older women but they are family members and co workers. Do you think he is a perv, or someone even wor... (84 words)

I need help ASAP! This guy is acting so dumb!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy a month ago, he is the type that acts like a player but he really doesn't get too many girls. We go to college together in California and after we began talking about 4 days later we had sex, I know that was a no no. But things really clicked with ... (432 words)

Did my significant other play me and his ex-girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age - This occurred during the first month of our relationship. His ex-girlfriend, that he deeply loved and wanted to marry, had broken up with him two months prior to us dating. He didn't wait long to date other women, maybe within a week of the break up, but it appears they had a ... (334 words)

My boyfriend has female friend that he is entirely too close to

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So ill be honest, its a bit messed up, My boyfriend has a friend hes entirely too close to, She calls and texts him constantly, he makes plans to go places we didnt intend on because she gave him the invite. At first she wasnt a problem, then the flirted started and the ... (339 words)

I'm the wife of a crossdresser and my life is a mess

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help i have known for 2 yrs now that my husband is a crossdresser, we have been together 11 yrs and have 4 kids. Everythung was good until he started crossdressing. He is a hard working great man but my needs are not met like they used to be. I try to bring up the issue ... (88 words)

How could he go from telling me he loved me to nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I am in my 3rd year of college and just broke up with my 2nd serious boyfriend. We met thru friends and felt like we'd known each other forever. We went on dates for only 8 days and decided to make it official. I had heard alot about him through friends about how he was a ... (781 words)

I turned him away and now I miss the opportunity I had with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like crying... There's this guy I was dating for a while, the first time ever that there was potential with anyone (and I'm 20), but all the while I felt like something was wrong, that I couldn't fall in love with him. He was so sweet, so good to me, and made me feel so ... (411 words)

I'm pregnant and just found out my BF has been flirting , possible cheating, with another girl. Struggling with what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old. In June 2011 I started a relationship with my partner. We had a few rocky bumps with his family which made us stronger, it was hard but after being able to stick with each other it felt great. In January 2012 we moved into our own home as he was forced to c... (388 words)

Girls don't find me attractive. Do they prefer the guys who break their hearts and show no respect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 22 years old and cant help it but face the truth and it gets me down. I have always realised I'm not good looking/ attractive. In school, people used to get into relationships all the time, not me, I knew what was wrong girls didn't find me that attractive. It didn't bothe... (322 words)

Am I unreasonable to dislike the fact that my B/f' 5 year old son crawls into bed with us every morning, then fidgets, talks, crawls all over us?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

10 January 2013 (?) age 36-40 - A brief question to all you helpful people... I'm in a great new(er) relationship that is fairly serious, and I have just moved in with my boyfriend, although I've been unofficially living with him for three months. My lease just expired, my things are here, and this is now ... (417 words)

What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ruin the family, when we only ... (61 words)

We've been dating for 7 months and no sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am dating the guy for seven months now.. and we didn't have any sex! he didn't tell me I love you.. he is 23 years old and I am 40.. I feel his love but he didn't want to admit it! should I continue?... (45 words)

How do I deal with a coworker who is stealing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! This isnt actually a " relationship " question, but I really need some help in regards to a boy I work with. Im 23 and work part time as a waitress. Anyways Im having some issues with him. Hes been stealing tips, my boss knows and says to keep an eyep on the cash tips. I ... (346 words)

The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense and disruptive ... (603 words)

Do I keep my 8 year marriage? Or my baby that is probably not my husbands?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and been with my husband for 8 years and married for 6, we found out about year 2 of our relationship that my husband had a very little chance of getting me pregnant . We struggled with this over the the whole duration of our relationship things just went downhill and ... (150 words)

Things got ugly discussing an unexpected pregnancy. Do I need to tell him if I don't keep the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out I was pregnant with my ex's baby, we have generally got on well until I found out he had lied to me about seeing another girls whilst we were split up for a bit, then lying about getting back together with her 2 days after I told him I was pregnant! ... (197 words)

I fell in love with my FWB guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well i have been with a guy for more than a year almost now.we are not dating each other.we are friends with benefits.we used to talk for hours and hours everyday but until one day i cut off with him without letting him know. after 7 months he called me up on my birthday ... (117 words)

How do I cope? He's going on and I feel like I've been kicked in the stomach

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Soooo me and this guy were seeing eachother for 4 months. The relationship was so rocky it wasn't funny! Every (bleeping) week he would find some excuse of why he couldn't be with me. Then when i tried to leave he would come back and say "baby i need you and i love you." Sure ... (181 words)

I am left feeling guilty because I don't want to give my b/f a blow job

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. I have had a bad experience with blowjobs in my past and i know my boyfriend really wants one but i can't let go and give him one. I'm not ready. But he's become withdrawn and he tells his friends he's sexually frustrated even ... (205 words)

Do I continue to date this amazing guy knowing that when I'm with him all I do is think of the ex or do I stop dating until I'm fully over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating a wonderful guy, things have been going really well but for some reason I cannot get my ex out of my head. My ex and I had a great relationship but it ended suddenly with no real reason apart from he was moving 70 miles away for work. We sat down and ... (232 words)

I fell in love, but I doubt if she will be interested in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a girl, but I doubt if she will be interested in me. I've been thinking about her a lot of time during the past year. Although we do not even know each other personally, and I don't know of her opinion, but there are objective reasons to believe that she ... (256 words)

Guy trying to steal my girl becoming a nuisance

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - hi ladies and gents, i need a little help with my gfs/fiances problem friend. before i came onto the scene, they where dating and she gave him a little tail once in a while (from what i gather). but they never became bf/gf because he was too creepy recently hes asked... (489 words)

I went on a date with a friend. We didn't click and I told him this. But I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First, I've posted a couple questions on here already about dating friends... And thanks so much for the advice! It really did help. So: I went on a date with one of my best friends a few weeks ago... It was awkward and we didn't really "click." I said I needed to thin... (202 words)

Why do I feel guilty when he is the one who can't be trusted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up on trust issues.he is pleading to not go.I know I am doing it for good and If i stay I will fall again in the circles of accusations and justifications.Being a LDR it just not helps. My question is why I am the one who feel guilty? ... (55 words)

How do you cope with losing a dear friend from arguing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4362 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I recently lost a friend, and as typical as it may seem, this was the first time I have ever had a serious falling out with any of my friends. It was a bit ridiculous, really. To explain without getting into real detail, those who were involved had huge and unrealistic ... (560 words)

My boyfriend is lying about doing dope. I tried to talk to a friend about it and wound up kissing him. Confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I found out a month ago that my boyfriends doing dope.. But I found out by going threw his texts because I knew something weird was going on and I was getting concerned, but I didn't know how to tackle the issue so I thought I put the issue to rest but iv realized my ability ... (226 words)

My band director acts like a jealous boyfriend around me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It all started at the beginning of last year, my sophomore year. I broke it off with a guy I had been dating for two years because I wanted to focus more on school. I started spending a lot of time after school helping my band director because I wanted to be drum major ... (474 words)

Her marriage has ended but husband won't leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been involed in a relationship with a married woman and we have fallen in love with each other. Her marriage has ended but he won't leave. They were only married for just about 2 yrs. been bad from the beginning. I've never felt love like we have in my life. What should I ... (56 words)

We've been together 19 months and have never said I love you to one another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

10 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm in a great relationship with my bf for a year and 7 months. We are both in our early 20s. And he is my first bf and im his first gf too. We are both graduating from college in May and do not expect to continue dating after graduation because we will be too far away.... (216 words)

I am in love with this girl but she hates me now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

10 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in love with this girl but she hates me now. You see, I took advantage of the feelings she had for me and made her do something she never wanted to do. I didn't mean to. She means the world to me and I love her and she loved me too. Now she won't talk to me or acknowledge ... (97 words)